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steve benson
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Date: January 02, 2014 07:12PM
. . . gave me and my then-spouse a personally-autographed copy of his book, "Miracle of Forgiveness." Now, that's something for a good Mormon boy and girl to read on their wedding night in the Hotel Utah overlooking the spires on Temple Square.
I had tried plowing through it in my teens but couldn't finish the damn thing, even though back in those days I was about as guileless as a good Mormon boy could possibly be. (Like the old saying goes, I used to sneak out behind the barn--and do nothing). True Confessions: I couldn't stand the book. Trying to hack my way through its jungle of dysfunctional jargon, I got the feeling that I was reading a painfully- and artificially-forced screed against natural human sexuality coming from someone with his own suffocating, sexual (and perhaps homosexually-inclined) hang-ups. Even as a straight-arrow Mormon kid, he hit me as being a seriously-conflicted dude entangled in a case of deeply personal and severe sexual "sin" obsession. To me, the book came off as hollow, preachy and out-of-touch. I put it down and never finished it. I think Spence was not comfortable in his own skin.
Then, as a sequel, I end up getting it as a wedding present from SWK, a cloistered little old man who didn't have a clue about normal human sexual reality.
Good gawd, Spence. Even the tomatoes you handed me over the back fence were better:
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,1124816,1124816#msg-1124816Edited 12 time(s). Last edit at 01/03/2014 12:01AM by steve benson.