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Date: June 27, 2016 12:53PM
My nephew died a week ago and I went to his funeral in Payson, UT on Friday. (outside of this, it’s really weird to be driving down I-15 and see that temple sitting there in the middle of a field )
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,1837373The service was pretty lowkey-he was cremated so there was no casket to go admire. He was a member, but only because his wife wanted it years ago. They were divorced now and she was really emotional the whole time.
He’d grown up with no church of any kind, so it wasn’t full of typical Mormon platitudes. His boss and another co-worker spoke and they said some nice things about him, but gratefully there was no “families can be forever” stuff.
His 16 year old daughter said some nice things about him—she’s a very smart and funny girl. She did a musical number also but it was definitely not a church song. Kind of out of the Taylor Swift catalog.
His mother (my favorite sister-in-law) and his brother were there from Reno, NV. I didn’t notice any tears from them.
Then the bishop spoke for a few minutes. His talk was short, not much about the plan of salvation or general conference subjects.
It was my first visit to a chapel in about 18 years, and I noticed that smell that was talked about here a week or so ago. Never noticed it before.
There was also a luncheon, and I was SO looking forward to funeral potatoes. They weren't very good. There were several types of dessert, and my TBM sister-in-law called one of them "Better than Sex" cake, which sort of surprised me. Everyone laughed.
If the deceased was TBM, it will be like going to general conference, but not as many people.