Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 06:49AM
--"John C. Bennett . . . accused Joseph of trying to seduce Nancy Rigdon,
nineteen-year-old daughter of Sidney Rigdon . . . .
"That Joseph attempted to persuade Nancy to marry him was recorded by
others besides Bennett, including Nancy's brother John. John said that
until that incident the Rigdons had been unaware of polygamy in the
church. Sidney was profoundly shocked and upset by ensuing gossip among
neighbors. According to John, Joseph denied having proposed to Nancy, but
Sidney later got an admission from him that it was true."
(Donna Hill, "Joseph Smith--The First Mormon" [Garden City, New York:
Doubleday & Company, Inc., 1977], p. 301)
_____
--"The prophet [Joseph Smith] was . . . at odds with his long-time friend
and counselor Sidney Rigdon over a reputed polygamous proposal on 9 April
1842 to Rigdon's unmarried daughter Nancy. George W. Robinson, a prominent
Nauvoo citizen married to another of Rigdon's daughters, wrote to James A.
Bennett, a New York friend to the church, on 22 July 1842, that 'Smith
sent for Miss Rigdon to come to the house of Mrs. [Orson] Hyde, who lived
in the under-rooms of the printing- office. . . . According to Robinson,
Nancy 'inquired of the messenger . . . what was wanting, and the only
reply was, that Smith wanted to see her.' Robinson claimed that Smith took
her into a room, 'locked the door, and then stated to her that he had had
an affection for her for several years, and wished that she should be his;
that the Lord was well pleased with this matter, for he had got a
revelation on the subject, and God had given him all the blessings of
Jacob, etc., etc., and that there was no sin whatever.' Robinson reported
that Nancy 'repulsed him and was about to raise the neighbors if he did
not unlock the door and let her out' . . . .
"Nancy's brother, John, recounting the incident later, remembered that
'Nancy refused him, saying if she ever got married she would marry a
single man or none at all, and took her bonnet and went home, leaving
Joseph . . . .' Nancy withheld details of the situation from her family
until a day or two later, when a letter from the prophet was delivered by
Smith's personal secretary, Willard Richards. 'Happiness is the object and
design of our existence,' the letter began. 'That which is wrong under one
circumstance, may be, and often is, right uner another.' The letter went
ont to teach that 'whatever God requires is right, no matter what it is,
although we may not see the reason thereof til long after the events
transpire. . . . Our Heavenly Father is more liberal in his views, and
boundless in his mercies and blessings, than we are ready to believe or
receive.'
"Nancy showed the prophet's letter to her father and told him of the
incident at the Hyde residence. Rigdon demanded an audience with Smith.
George W. Robinson reported that when Smith came to Rigdon's home, the
enraged father asked for an explanation. The prophet 'attempted to deny it
at first,' Robinson said, 'and face her down with the lie; but she told
the facts with so much earnestness, and the fact of a letter being
present, which he had caused to be written to her on the same subject, the
day after the attempt made on her virtue,' that ultimately 'he could not
withstand the testimony; he then and there acknowledged that every word of
Miss Rigdon's testimony was true' . . . . Much later, John Rigdon
elaborated that 'Nancy was one of those excitable women and she went into
the room and said, "Joseph Smith, you are telling that which is not true.
You did make such a proposition to me and you know it [crossed out in the
original]: 'The woman who was there said to Nancy, "Are you not afraid to
call the Lord's anointed a cursed liar?" "No," she replied, "I am not for
he does lie and he knows it"]' . . . .
"Robinson wrote that Smith, after acknowledging the incident, claimed he
had propositioned Nancy because he 'wished to ascertain whether she was
virtuous or not, and took that course to learn the facts!' . . . But the
Rigdon family would not accept such an explanation. They were persuaded
that the rumors about the prophet's polygamy doctrine had been confirmed.
The issue continued to be a serious source of contention between the two
church leaders until Smith's death in 1844. According to John Rigdon,
Sidney told the family that Smith 'could never be sealed to one of his
daughters with his consent as he did not believe in the doctrine' . . . .
Rigdon preferred to keep his difficulties with the prophet private, but
John C. Bennet's detailed disclosures made this impossible. . . .
"There is no solid evidence that Rigdon ever advocated polygamy. His son
John maintained that Rigdon 'took the ground no matter from what source it
came, whether from [the] Prophet, seer [and] revelator or angels from
heaven, [that] it was a false doctrine and should be rejected' . . . . Yet
accusations linking Ridgon to polygamy and insinuating that his daughter
Nancy was a prostitute undermined his status as the only surviving member
of the First Presidency [following the assassination of Smith]."
(Richard S. Van Wagoner, "Mormon Polygamy: A History" [Salt Lake City,
Utah: Signature Books, 1986], pp. 30-31, 73)
_____
--"In mid-April [1844] Joseph had asked Sidney Rigdon's nineteen-year-old
daughter Nancy to become his plural wife. Bennett had his own eye on the
girl and forewarned her, so she refused Joseph. The following day Joseph
dictated a letter to her with Willard Richards acting as scribe. It read
in part, 'Happiness is the object and design of our existence; and will be
the end thereof, if we pursue the path that leads to it; and this path is
virtue, uprightness, faithfulness, holiness, and keeping all the
commandments of God. . . . That which is wrong under one circumstance, may
be, and often is, right under another. . . . Whatever God requires is
right, no matter what it is, although we may not see the reason therof til
long after the events transpire.'
"Nancy Rigdon showed the letter to her father. Rigdon immediately sent for
Joseph, who reportedly denied everything until Sidney thrust the letter in
his face. George W. Robinson, Nancy's brother-in-law, claimed he witnessed
the encounter and said Joseph admitted that he spoken with Nancy but that
he had only been testing her virtue."
(Linda King Newell and Valeen Tippetts Avery, "Mormon Enigma: Emma Hale
Smith--Prophet's Wife, 'Elect Lady,' Polygamy's Foe" [Garden City, New
York: Doubleday & Compmany, Inc., 1984] pp. 111-12)
_____
--"Joseph Smith's wives, after their marriage to him, often figured in the
marriage arrangements of new wives, as messengers or counselors or
witnesses. According to John Bennett, Smith used [Nancy] Marinda [Hyde] as
a go-between in his attempt to woo Nancy Rigdon, Sidney's
nineteen-year-old daughter. Bennett is not always reliable, but he did
have early first-hand knowledge of the Mormon leader's polygamous
activites, as his short list of Smith's plural wives shows. In this case,
accounts of the same events by Nancy's brother, J. Wickliffe, and her
brother-in-law, George W. Robinson, show that Bennet was not merely
spinning a fictitious story.
"Bennett relates that in early April [1844], Smith decided he wanted to
marry Nancy Rigdon, so on April 9 he asked Marinda to arrange a meeting
between him and the teenager. Marinda met Nancy at the funeral of Ephraim
Marks and told her that Joseph wanted to see her at the printing office,
Marinda's residence. When Nancy arrived, she was ushered into a private
room where Joseph soon proposed to her. She was outraged and demanded that
he let her out of the locked room immediately. Smith did so, but, 'as she
was much agitated, he requested Mrs. Hyde to explain matters to her; and,
after agreeing to write her a doctrinal letter, left the house. Mrs. Hyde
told her that these things looked strange to her at first, but that she
would become more reconciled on mature reflection. Miss Rigdon replied, "I
never shall," left the house, and returned home.' Nancy did hold her
ground, and when she told her father of the experience, it drove a firm
wedge between him and Joseph, just as Joseph's earlier relationship with
Fanny Alger had caused another high church leader, Oliver Cowdery, to lose
respect for him."
(Todd Compton, "In Sacred Loneliness: The Plural Wives of Joseph Smith"
[Salt Lake City, Utah: Signature Books, 1997], pp. 239-40)
_____
More on the damning details relating to Smith's sexual stalking of Nancy
Rigdon, the attempted lies and cover-up, the subsequent justifications and
the personal smearing of Nancy Rigdon (provided previously by RfM poster
Jim Huston):
[PREDATOR JOSEPH SMITH, ALONE IN A LOCKED ROOM WITH NANCY RIGDON, MAKES
HIS MOVE]
"'Sidney Rigdon: A Portrait of Religious Excess,' by Van Wagoner, p. 295,
from letter George W. Robinson to James Arlington Bennett 7/27/1842, cited
in Bennett, pp. 245-247:
"'Smith greeted her, ushered her into a private room, then locked the
door. After swearing her to secrecy, Smith announced his "affection for
her for several years and wished that she would be his….the Lord was well
pleased with the matter. There was no sin it it whatever… but if she had
any scruples of conscience about the matter, he would marry her
privately.'"
_____
[YOUNG NANCY RIGDON'S DEFIANT RESISTANCE AND IMMEDIATE REBUFF OF SMITH]
"'Sidney Rigdon: A Portrait of Religious Excess,' by Van Wagoner, from
interview with Elders William H. and E. L. Kelly, cited in Smith and
Smith, 4:452-453:
"'Despite her tender age, she did not hesitate to express herself. The
prophet's seductive behavior shocked her; she rebuffed him in a flurry of
anger.'"
_____
[SUPPORT OF SMITH'S MOVE ON NANCY RIGDON BY OTHER MORMON WOMEN]
"'Sidney Rigdon: A Portrait of Religious Excess,' by Van Wagoner, p. 295,
from Wickliffe Rigdon, "Life Story of Sydney Rigdon," p. 164:
"'Smith, flustered, beckoned Mrs. Hyde into the room to help win Nancy
over. Hyde volunteered that she too was surprised upon first hearing the
tenet, but was convinced it was true, and that “great exaltation would
come to those who received and embraced it.'"
_____
[SMITH REFUSES TO TAKE "NO" FOR AN ANSWER FROM NANCY RIGDON AND INCREASES
THE PRESSURE ON HER WITH A FOLLOW-UP JUSTIFYING LETTER INVOKING GOD]
"'Sidney Rigdon: A Portrait of Religious Excess," by Van Wagoner, p. 295,
from Wickliffe Rigdon, 28 July 1905 statement:
"'Incredulous, the feisty Nancy countered that “if she ever got married,
she would marry a single man or not at all."
"'Not willing to take no for an answer, Smith later had a letter delivered
to Nancy.
"'Joseph Smith to Miss Nancy Rigdon, 11 April 1842, "History of the
Church," Vol. 5, pp.134-36; see also, "The Letter of the Prophet, Joseph
Smith to Miss Nancy Rigdon," in "Joseph Smith Collection," LDS archives:
"'Happiness is the object and design of our existence; and will be the end
thereof, if we pursue the path that leads to it; and this path is virtue,
uprightness, faithfulness, holiness, and keeping all the commandments of
God. But we cannot keep all the commandments without first knowing them,
and we cannot expect to know all, or more than we now know unless we
comply with or keep those we have already received. That which is wrong
under one circumstance, may be, and often is, right under another.
"'God said, "Thou shalt not kill;" at another time He said "Thou shalt
utterly destroy." This is the principle on which the government of heaven
is conducted--by revelation adapted to the circumstances in which the
children of the kingdom are placed. Whatever God requires is right, no
matter what it is, although we may not see the reason thereof till long
after the events transpire. If we seek first the kingdom of God, all good
things will be added. So with Solomon: first he asked wisdom, and God gave
it him, and with it every desire of his heart, even things which might be
considered abominable to all who understand the order of heaven only in
part, but which in reality were right because God gave and sanctioned by
special revelation.
"'A parent may whip a child, and justly, too, because he stole an apple;
whereas if the child had asked for the apple, and the parent had given it,
the child would have eaten it with a better appetite; there would have
been no stripes; all the pleasure of the apple would have been secured,
all the misery of stealing lost.
"'This principle will justly apply to all of God's dealings with His
children. Everything that God gives us is lawful and right; and it is
proper that we should enjoy His gifts and blessings whenever and wherever
He is disposed to bestow; but if we should seize upon those same blessings
and enjoyments without law, without revelation, without commandment, those
blessings and enjoyments would prove cursings and vexations in the end,
and we should have to lie down in sorrow and wailings of everlasting
regret. But in obedience there is joy and peace unspotted, unalloyed; and
as God has designed our happiness—and the happiness of all His creatures,
he never has—He never will institute an ordinance or give a commandment to
His people that is not calculated in its nature to promote that happiness
which He has designed, and which will not end in the greatest amount of
good and glory to those who become the recipients of his law and
ordinances. Blessings offered, but rejected, are no longer blessings, but
become like the talent hid in the earth by the wicked and slothful
servant; the proffered good returns to the giver; the blessing is bestowed
on those who will receive and occupy; for unto him that hath shall be
given, and he shall have abundantly, but unto him that hath not or will
not receive, shall be taken away that which he hath, or might have had.
"'Be wise today; 'tis madness to defer: Next day the fatal precedent may
plead. Thus on till wisdom is pushed out of time
Into eternity.
"'Our heavenly Father is more liberal in His views, and boundless in His
mercies and blessings, than we are ready to believe or receive; and, at
the same time, is more terrible to the workers of iniquity, more awful in
the executions of His punishments, and more ready to detect every false
way, than we are apt to suppose Him to be. He will be inquired of by His
children. He says: "Ask and ye shall receive, seek and ye shall find;"
but, if you will take that which is not your own, or which I have not
given you, you shall be rewarded according to your deeds; but no good
thing will I withhold from them who walk uprightly before me, and do my
will in all things—who will listen to my voice and to the voice of my
servant whom I have sent; for I delight in those who seek diligently to
know my precepts, and abide by the law of my kingdom; for all things shall
be made known unto them in mine own due time, and in the end they shall
have joy.'"
_____
[LEARNING FROM NANCY OF SMITH'S MOVES ON HIS DAUGHTER, SIDNEY RIGDON
EXPLODES IN OUTRAGE AND CALLS SMITH TO ACCOUNT]
"'Sidney Rigdon: A Portrait of Religious Excess,' by Van Wagoner, p. 296,
from George W. Robinson to James Arlington Bennett 7/27/1842, cited in
Bennett, p. 246:
"'When Sidney confronted Smith at the Rigdon home, the enraged father
demanded an explanation of the prophet’s behavior. Smith “attempted to
deny it at first, and faced [Nancy] down with the lie; ‘told the facts
with so much earnestness, and the fact of a letter being present, which he
had caused to be written to her, on the same subject, the day after the
attempt made on her virtue,' that ultimately 'he could not withstand the
testimony; he then and there acknowledged that every word of Miss Rigdon's
testimony was true."'
_____
[SMITH LIES TO COVER HIS SEXUAL ADVANCES ON NANCY RIGDON, CLAIMING HE WAS
MERELY TESTING HER SEXUAL PURITY]
"'Sidney Rigdon: A Portrait of Religious Excess," by Van Wagoner, p. 296,
from George W. Robinson to James Arlington Bennett 27 June 1842, cited in
Bennett, p. 246:
"'Smith, after acknowledging his proposition, sought a way out of the
crisis by claiming he had approached Nancy 'to ascertain whether she was
virtuous or not, and took that course to learn the facts!'"
_____
[CREDIBILITY OF NANCY RIGDON'S ACCUSATIONS AGAINST SMITH]
"'Sidney Rigdon: A Portrait of Religious Excess," by Van Wagoner, p. 299,
from S.M. Ellis (Nancy Rigdon’s son) letter to L. J. Nuffer:
"'The bedeviling paradox for many regarding the Nancy Rigdon incident, is
that while Smith's fame as a prophet of God makes the charges against him
hard to believe, her steadfast reputation makes them difficult to
dismiss.'"
_____
[NANCY RIGDON'S REFUSAL TO GIVE IN TO SMITH'S SEXUAL ADVANCES RESULTS IN
HER BEING BRANDED A CHILD PROSTITUTE]
"'Sidney Rigdon: A Portrait of Religious Excess,' by Van Wagoner, p. 299:
"Inevitably, Nancy Rigdon, Sarah Pratt, and Martha Brotherton saw their
reputations impugned by an avalanche of slander. The prophet labeled Sarah
a '[whore] from her mother's breast.' Martha Brotherton was branded a
'mean harlot.' while Nancy was tagged a 'poor miserable girl out of the
very slough of prostitution.'"
("Nancy Rigdon and Joseph Smith--What a Pig," posted by Jim Huston,
"Recovery from Mormonism" bulletin board, 22 March 2011, 6:10 p.m.)
Posted by: SpongeBob SquareGarments ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 11:39AM
I wonder if this damages the Spalding theory? Because why would Joseph
risk pissing off Sidney by propositioning his daughter if they were in
cahoots. Thoughts?
Posted by: SL Cabbie ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 11:53AM
Not to bring up politics or single out one political party, but just to
offer evidence, see Clinton, William Jefferson; Ensign, John; Edwards
John; Gingrich, Newt...
And a ton of others...
BTW, Samuel W. Taylor ("Nightfall at Nauvoo") suggests that the Nancy
Rigdon "episode" may have been at the root of the falling out between
Joseph Smith and John C. Bennett...
Mormon historians spin that one as saying JS discovered Bennett's
escapades, tried to counsel him back, and then ultimately expelled him
from the church for his refusal to abandon his evil ways...
Right...
Posted by: amos2 ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 04:09PM
As co-accomplices, they had a M.A.D. Relationship, mutual assured
destruction. If Rigdon were truly a sincere convert, surely he would have
bolted when he found out Smith's abuses...but he hung around until he was
excommunicated, essentially for trying to take over the church. But even
as an excommunicant Rigdon was waiting for a chance to take the church
back, and indeed he rushed to make the attempt when Smith was murdered.
Their relationship smacks of codependency, which I think is addressed in
the book "Spalding Enigma".
Posted by: badseed ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 03:22PM
but the relationship was mended and by mid 1844 Rigdon was his running
mate for the US presidency. The Brighamites tried to make it sound like
Rigdon had split w/ the Church— and for a while JS tried to get rid of
him. In the end Rigdon came back to Brother Joe. Why? Who knows.
If some 36-37 year guy secretly propose to my 19 yr old daughter and then
had her reputation destroyed when she declined and went public, I wouldn't
be so forgiving.
They called her a"poor miserable girl out of the very slough of
prostitution." Nice.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/27/2011 03:22PM by badseed.
Posted by: gilgamesh ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 06:31PM
Very few. I've tried talking to my wife and a handful of close friends. At
first they try to reason. When they realize it's not reasonable to reason
they say something like... You know... That's just not that interesting to
me. I'm much more interested in blah blah blah.
My tbm brother always says "the responsibility isn't on me to defend"
Gah!
Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 06:40PM
A sibling responded, head held high and voice firm:
"Well, I'm just going to follow the Brethren."
Followed by silence.
Posted by: aliveinchrist ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 03:29PM
--"In mid-April [1844] Joseph had asked Sidney Rigdon's nineteen-year-old
daughter Nancy to become his plural wife. Bennett had his own eye on the
girl and forewarned her, so she refused Joseph. The following day Joseph
dictated a letter to her with Willard Richards acting as scribe. It read
in part, 'Happiness is the object and design of our existence; and will be
the end thereof, if we pursue the path that leads to it; and this path is
virtue, uprightness, faithfulness, holiness, and keeping all the
commandments of God. . . . That which is wrong under one circumstance, may
be, and often is, right under another. . . . Whatever God requires is
right, no matter what it is, although we may not see the reason thereof
til long after the events transpire.'
Oh my goodness that is the context? Son of a...
Posted by: badseed ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 06:43PM
Seems far less poetic to me now that I know he's using it trying to bed
the 19 year old daughter of his counselor.
Posted by: Simone Stigmata ( )
Date: May 27, 2011 06:52PM
Them's pretty impressive words when I was TBM. Holy crap. Context changes
everything.
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