Thanks Amyjo It is just incredible that our closest friends searched for the truth of Mormonism too, came to the same conclusions and that we have been able to support one another through all the stages of post-Mormonism. Thanks for your sweet message.
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Thank you Cheryl
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Hi Felix! Yes I’m so relieved that we’re out and so fortunate to be out together! Thanks for your support.
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So right Elder!
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Thanks - yes, I left on my own but it didn’t take more than a couple of weeks before the whole family was out! So grateful!!
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Thank you Summer ❤️
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We’re in Perth, Australia. I bump into members when we’re out and about. They’re always surprised to see how happy and well we’re looking. They seem to expect awful things to happen to us for leaving the church. Life has never been so good!
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You’re right. My closest friends were watching closely when I was researching the Mormon history & doctrines. I got to a point of pleading with God to show me His truth. I was led to read the New Testament again. But this time it’s like a veil had been removed and I understood what I was reading without my Mormon paradigm. It has been a priceless experience to finally come to know th
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I’m so happy for you too. Things are moving along fast and from our experiences, there’s no way it’s co-incidence either. These four families that have left were all solid temple going families serving on Bishopric, RS President, High council, etc. The local leaders are trying to contain the ripple effect and it’s not working!
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Thanks Aquarius! 38 years in a cult. Almost 6 months out! That is freedom indeed!
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The last time I posted on here was January. By mid February, my husband and I had requested our names to be removed off church records, along with our three kids! Just incredible - I didn’t see that coming so soon with him. It’s been the craziest time of our lives with so many surprising reactions from others. I just wanted to say thanks to all who gave encouraging words and great adv
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Hey waunderdog Good advice. It’s scary how the church gets into the head so much and the level of control it has when it’s infiltrated every part of ones life. I’ve chosen to just hold onto my belief in God and will hold to the bible. I’m hesitant to join another church for now. I’m sure new friends will come as the old ones fade away. Will pursue some of my interests and hobbies t
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Hey Lindy That would be great. What’s the best way to contact you? Thanks
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Thanks Chipace I’m looking forward to those kind of Sunday’s!! I hope you’re right about my husband and kids - maybe if they can see how much I love my new free Sundays, they will join me sooner rather than later;)
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Hey Summer Good to hear from you. I’ve learnt quickly that the less info for others, the better. Already had a 3 hour meeting with Bishop ‘popping in’ to discuss my concerns. It only left me feeling more frustrated than ever as he avoided the real concerns I had and instead tried to do a psychoanalysis on me, trying to find some other issues other than the ones I’d talked about. T
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Hi Tutu I’m in Perth, Aus. I don’t know of any groups but I’ll look a little harder.
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Hi Felix! Good to hear from you again:) Your advice to be patient and not to try force my viewpoints is great advice. It’s so easy to feel angry and I have many moments of frustration and anger. I’m trying to focus on the positive’s of having a husband that does understand and seeing Gods hand in many things.
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Thanks, I found the resignation letter. My only hesitation in sending off one straightaway would be that I’m not sure how long it will take for my husband and kids to make their exit. Sounds worth it though to avoid the love-bombing, ‘surprise’ cookies and new fake friends dropping in. Thanks for the encouragement;)
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Hi Gatorman! Great tips. I have refused the last church calling, kept my temple recommend and started talking with the kids who are school age about having concerns with some aspects of lds doctrine and history. The rest still needs to happen. The few things I’ve mentioned to my staunch siblings and their spouses, along with my parents, have only been met with the typical reactive and emo
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Thank you exminion! Your words are so encouraging and you’ve shared some very valuable advice. I’m the first in my family that will be leaving, and I believe my husband and children will eventually too. But I will most likely take the rap for “causing the whole family to leave” even though my husband is very aware of the Mormon fraud. He is a convert and a big people pleaser, and very
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I’m a 38 year old married woman with three kids. Good advice about not trying to explain all the finer details of why I’m leaving. I know that mindset as it was mine a few years ago. Good to hear it gets better with time as well. Very encouraging!
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Great song ha ha!
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No worries there mate!
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I know many of you have been there, done that with regards to leaving The Church. Any tips or advice on how to break it to friends, family etc that are staunch members? This is the hardest and loneliest decision I’ve ever made. It will change relationships for sure and I know some serious opposition to this decision is coming as well as severe judgement. My reasons for leaving is solely beca
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I’m sure you are right but I’m embarrassed to admit that I am only starting to break out of my ‘Mormon world’ and find that there is so much more outside of the bubble I’ve been in.
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Thanks Felix Those quotes are SO applicable right now... except those last two beauties ;) Things have changed even since my first post on here. Each day I feel that trusting my own intuition is growing stronger. Each day I’m caring less about what others will say or how they will judge me. I have been bamboozled for too long already. And the tribe is very overwhelming. Chatted with a C
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I’m starting to see this. Fear is a major component in the church that motivates people to make the great sacrifices they do. Wise words - thanks for your comments.
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caedmon, I’ve heard this about Utah. I’ve never been to Utah and have no intention of ever visiting. It doesn’t sound like a great place to be. Too many Mormons! Thanks for your comment about ‘by their fruits’. Cheers for now :)
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Rameumptom Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Leaving is painful. Staying in can be painful, > too, once you see underbelly. You have to decide > what works best for you. > > Many, like me, felt compelled to leave, and have > found it to be a worthwhile, while difficult > journey. I’m getting to that place where I feel compelled t
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Motherwhoknows, please try not to judge me. I personally have no issues with same-sex couples. Each to their own. Our history with old men marrying young women and the whole idea of polygamy is revolting to me. I’m learning new things every day and am feeling quite alone in this. Some of my initial remarks are not even relevant anymore because they were so broad. I know the church members
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