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10 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Wow ... well, that certainly wouldn't sit with me right, either. You pull out a list like you're shopping at a Dream Wife Mall and you're going to have yourself quite the woman to handle for that date...if it happened to me, haha.
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10 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Oh sweety, I'm so sorry! But hey, I don't want a white dress, either. Hooray! I hope you continue to heal, thank you for sharing you experience.
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10 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Grab a magazine and cut out your dream wedding dress...make sure it's modest. Get a piece of paper and write down what you want your husband to be like; don't forget to include he must be a member of the church, hold the preisthood and also be a returned missionary. Make sure to also write down how many children you want; no less than one, ok? Now write about the kind of house you want to live in
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Wow. I've certainly got an interesting mix of replies here. Thanks everyone :)
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
n/t
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
7. Update
I posted on her wall and said she should do as she wishes, but I'd support her either way. She's an amazing mother and if she wants another kid...
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Have a friend who has a blessing that said he had his mate specially chosen before coming to earth, that she willhelp him rise above adversity and he would climb very very high in the church, as a Prophet. It made him out to be uber special and kingly. And he believed every word and scared his gf away by showing the blessing to her. Apparently she didn't want to be the one to shine his shoes, tie
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
I was seriously considering moving out of the state had he remained in that saddle.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
I'm sorry. That's horrible! False accusations get me sooooo mad.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
I was unconscious for nearly 24 hours straight this time around because of the pain. It took me a while to recover and get some strength back. It's been nice to come back and see this was replied too! Thanks! :D Very funny and interesting things!
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Pain has forced me to stay in bed today. Anyone have any entertaining, or crazy stories to share? :)
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
I missed it, as well. I read it every night as I'm going to sleep, like an awesome bedtime story.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Depict a group of people/friends obviously laughing their butts off. And you, well...not.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
I'm sure many of you relate to this particular topic. I resigned two years ago this month, and in that time, a dear family member has stopped speaking to/contacting me. We've been close since I was a child. I wasn't going to tell her for a while, but the continuous spiritual, cheesy forwarded emails of 'true' stories happening to blessed Mormons moved me to tell her. A few months passed. I wro
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Last time I went to- a- churh, was for my fathers funeral nearly two yeas ago now. Last time I was in a Mormon church, the bishop asked if my roommate and I were lesbian, because he 'was required to ask'. Yep.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Thank you, everyone. I appreciate the kind words! My girl died after nine hours of suffering. I'll never get over how she looked at me, took her last breath, and left that ailing body behind. I've cried rivers for over nine hours and am totally wiped out. Im going to sleep and hope I wake up on the more positive side. She isn't suffering anymore.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
I hope so. Or at least somewhere nice. My old, wonderful, darling, best friend of a cat is dying right now, in my arms. She's had cancer and all sorts of pain, and could have left this life a lot earlier...but she hung on to be with me, I feel. I've had more time to prepare for this moment, though it certainly hasn't made it any easier. With our last hours together, I can't help but hope there wi
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
--out of love. When I was a member, the diagnosis of my pain was marked by my Mormon peers as a trial set upon me by God, to learn, to cope, to pray more and be devote in my scripture study, to draw me closer to him... Yeah. Didn't work. Now years later out of the church, with the same condition, it's my punishment. I'm not kidding; this was relayed to me. The general mentality of TSCC is j
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Oh wait, I forgot...it's okay on a guy. But a little girl* can't be seen showing upper arm. *referring to the topic of TSCC drawing in a sleeve for a dress on a little girl before (?) publicizing it
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
I haven't considered it because I literally don't have a penny to my name, but I would like to once I can afford it.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
That's a good suggestion! Thank you.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Yeeeah....wasn't sure how to take anon's words there...
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Wow, thank you so much. All of you! Thank you for sharing, and thank you ever so much for your advice. :)
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
It started when I was quite young. My mother allowed many abusive men into our lives, and I was quick to become targeted with mental and physical abuse. I was never raped, but there would be touching, groping, and the threat I would be raped. I would defend my mother from the 'bad men' though. I loved her dearly despite her poor choices. This cycle continued on until I started high school. We
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
If anything else, attending church was a highlight if only for juicy gossip. I was announced to be lesbian with two other girls...wasn't true, but I look back at it now and wish to hell and back I had fluttered my lashes flirtatiously at my young women daaarlings.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
Tsh. I know a whole family of Mormons who were all homeschooled. They are all very smart, and didn't have a hint of 'social awkwardness'. The only reason they were treated differently in our small town was because they weren't seen as often as you saw other school kids and such. While I would never homeschool kids, it seems to work for the very dedicated.
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
n/t
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11 years ago
BahBahBlacki
I've had migraines since I was a little girl. When they gang up on me with my other chronic pain, I'm in bed, sometimes screaming, for days.
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