Posted by:
Cheryl
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Date: August 02, 2013 02:56PM
She investigated the Allred group and I think she might agree with me that polygamy is more about power.
Many males have fantasies about polygamy. Some probably fantasize rape and underage sex. Still, the reality is more about having power over women and having power over other men by monopolizing the biggest share of women.
Anagrammy pointed out that the women in the Allred group don't have equal opportunity sex. I think that's the case in most plyg situations and I'm not limiting this idea to Mormon religious or cultural situations. Certain wives get most or all of the action.
Someone didn't read Anagrammy's replies well and they said something rather strange about polygamy being about closeness and caring. Almost every human grouping involves caring but polygamy usually has less caring and closeness than a neighborhood church or an elementary classroom.
Remember the stories about Brigham Young meeting a young boy in the street and complimenting him, then finding out it was his son?
Remember the Kingston group leader who was told to recite the names of his children in a court case and could remember fewer than half of them?
The Allred group is by far the most ethical and loving plyg group I've seen. It certainly has the best reputation among the larger groups. My brother, nieces, nephews and friends from my youth are in that one. But loving and caring? They're usually polite and nice but they're no more loving than my nevermo friends are and probably less so.
One of my brother's wives ran screaming down the street with her baby and a few clothes because the situation was so intolerable. She never went back.
I know my brother well and I know others in that group and power rules. Everything else pales by comparison. Sex in polygamy? The reality seldom lives up to the fantasy.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 08/02/2013 04:47PM by Cheryl.