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Date: July 01, 2013 12:05PM
I said on another post that Mormons, the ones currently trying to "save the lost sheep" see themselves very differently than outsiders see them. They assume we want to hang out with them. They think that they are special and admirable and if they show us some attention, we will squirm with delight and race to take them up on their offer of friendship. This was highlighted by the comments made by the YW leaders who dropped by my house yesterday to see DD. They said they want to talk to her so she is more comfortable with them and, when refused the opportunity, asked what sort of activities they could plan that she might like to attend. It NEVER occurred to them I might not want her to feel comfortable hanging out with them nor want them to plan activities to lure her into their web. They felt like they were going out of their way to include her, never doubting that ANYONE would want to be friends with them.
The lack of humility is astonishing. When I make new friends, I don't assume the person will feel lucky that I grace them with my attention. But Mormons act like they are the popular kids in junior high and we wish we could be like them. That we'll respond positively to their attention or feel shamed and sad when ignored by them. It's ridiculous.
How I really see them is as nice people whose morals and values are beneath what I'm willing to settle for in life. As basically good people who have been taught to do bad things, having had their good intentions warped by the self-serving teachings of their overlords. As people who are more bad-mannered than good and who posses a tragic misunderstanding of personal space and boundaries. I don't want to hang out with them mostly because I don't want lower my standards and become like them. This is why their reactivation attempts fall so flat with me. Because they aren't much different than someone trying to get my children to try smoking or join a street gang or work at a strip club. Maybe that is overstating it (I've been told I do that) but the general sentiment remains the same. I want better for my children, myself and my family than Mormonism.
How do you view Mormons? Would it surprise them?