Posted by:
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Date: June 26, 2013 12:41AM
Hi, I'm new here! I've been reading for a while but just started posting in the last few days.
I no longer believe the LDS church is the "one true church" and am still trying to decide what to do with my new perspective. I still believe in God but my husband, who is thankfully joining me on this faith transition, is leaning more toward atheism.
We have young kids, 11 down to 5. Two have been baptized already. My oldest is in that phase where she doesn't like going to church much and I'm pretty sure her testimony is still in its formative phases. Last year she asked me how she was supposed to know all this stuff was true. I've had no indication that she's come to any conclusions yet. She's extremely analytical and intelligent and I'm fairly certain that she'll someday discover all the probs with the church whether I tell her about them or not.
My second child is very sweet-natured and loves her family, loves the church, she loves everything. I think she might have a very hard time if we leave the church.
The younger ones are young enough that they'll probably be just fine with whatever we say.
So, what's the best way to go about this with minimal trauma? I realize it might be overwhelming to tell a child that everything they've been taught about God and the church is wrong and that we don't want to be Mormon anymore. Is it best to slowly drift into inactivity and then begin attending somewhere else or go "church shopping" or what?
Do any of you have experience that could help us as we try to figure out how to go about this? Or any books or websites that might be helpful?
THX!