Posted by:
Nightingale
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Date: June 05, 2013 04:45PM
SusieQ#1 Wrote:
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> Check out other major religions. Not much
> difference when it comes to policies, rules and
> regs.
Oh, I think there is a lot of difference between these mission rules and "other major religions".
I was a JW missionary and we were given much more autonomy than Mormon missionaries are. In fact, our guidelines weren't any different than that expected of all members - to abide by the tenets of the faith. I always felt that I was treated like an adult, that I had made my choices and would abide by them without someone supervising me or watching my every move.
If you didn't want to do this you could choose to leave as JWs are only interested in you being around if you are "a good witness". They don't want you to be a bad example of a JW and even more important, they don't want you to infect any other members with your possibly radical ideas - anything not in agreement with them is radical.
Granted, it is generally easier to leave as a convert (which I was) than as a born-in member, just as with Mormonism. Granted, the degree of control is much higher with groups like JWs - similar to Mormonism.
But the picky parsing of every single nuance of speech and behaviour and the rules as outlined above by baura are far more intrusive and controlling in Mormonism, at least for youth missionaries, than in even the JWs, an admittedly controlling group, and way, way more personal and picky and controlling in Mormonism, for members and missionaries, than in any "major religion" of which I've read or those I've experienced.
Some of the rules on a mission can be seen to be for the protection of young, inexperienced people away from home but many, again as cited by baura above, become pharasaical. A mission is an exaggerated picture of what it's like to be a Mormon, with thoughts and deeds and plans and goals micro-managed, if not dictated, from on high (Mormon leaders), extending, but not limited to personal time, underwear choices, finances and intimate relationships.
In most "major religions" of my experience, they're just happy for your bum to fill their pew on a Sunday for an hour. Never have I been asked to weed their gardens, clean their toilets, fund their missions ad infinitum, or meet with their ministers to answer personal questions about my underwear or my sex life.
Unlike the Mormons.
And their missions.
And their leaders.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/05/2013 04:49PM by Nightingale.