In my experience, no. I know how to talk dirty, but the two TBM wives I've had (consecutively, not concurrently) didn't like "crude talk" and found it off putting.
garments 'make' sex only for pro-creation, especially for the 40s-50s-60s born TBMs.
(now) It's "I don't know that we teach that"; they even got one of their lower-echelon minions to Deny that there was 'actually' a Sex Drive!!! (I think I archived it, Ha Ha)
I avoided the uber TBM types. The Mormons I socialized with were like a transmission. They could shift into different modes. There was the serious church mode but they only shifted into that when necessary.
Some have some wild gears actually and when you shift into them, sometimes Mormons are more kinky than the average bear.
My Tbm girlfriend loved it. She was Tbm when we met, but that didn't last long. A month of dating, then sex, then months later she was a dirty talking nyphmo. Good memories.
My wife and I didn't talk dirty for 10 years. Then we left the cult and within a year the dirty talk was off the charts AND we fulfilled a few fantasies to boot.
I never said any bad words until two months ago, with the exception of calling my son a jackass about 5 years ago. I actually told him to stop being a jackass.
Now I'm having fun shocking my husband, both in public and behind closed doors. I said "what the hell..." in the car yesterday and he jumped a little. Haha, look what he unleashed!
I remember being shocked as a kid to find that Brigham Young used "damn" and "hell" in his sermons. Later I found that these JOD sermons where I found the "d" and "h" words were the cleaned up versions. The originals musta been good.
That might have influenced my epiphany at age 13 that a series of sounds--a pattern of air waves--could not inherently be evil.
baura Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- snip > That might have influenced my epiphany at age 13 > that a series of sounds--a pattern of air > waves--could not inherently be evil.
In general, the 'real' TBMs don't and get very uncomfortable if you do. My hubby gets a disgusted look on his face if I ever say anything remotely -- as he terms it -- "crude".