Posted by:
georgedubya
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Date: June 07, 2012 02:59AM
I actually posted on this forum a couple of years ago, when I was 15. I'm now 17, and in that time, things haven't really changed much.
I'm still atheist, I haven't told my family or mormon friends about my atheism and I still force myself to go to church. I too am living on that fear of my parents disowning me if I tell the truth, so I've been living this lie for over the past two years. I'm even still debating whether or not I should serve a mission, if only to shut my parents up.
When I was losing faith a couple of years ago, I was very vehement - obsessed, even - about researching as much dirt, horrors, and questionable history about mormonism that I possibly could. This even extended to me taking interest in researching cults and crazy wackjob "religions", like Thiooubia and some weird radical feminist Atlantis thing I can't remember.
I vowed from then on to destroy and rid the world of the monster, the evil that is mormonism (in case you're wondering, I never capitalize "mormon" because I don't feel it deserves that level of respect) in whatever ways I could. Of course, I was also in hiding at this time (still am, of course), so I couldn't really warn any other mormons that I knew. Instead, I have taken up the task of an anti-missionary: warning as much of my non-mo friends as I can about the evil that is this church.
The big issue, ultimately, is HOW exactly and WHEN I'm going to come out to my parents about this. I really just simply want to say NO to the whole mormon BS and never have anything to do with it ever again, but I know it won't be that easy. I will have to explain everything I have learned and researched about the church, cults, and Christianity.
The fallout effect of this, however, is potentially very terrifying. Suppose I strike a chord with my parents (especially my dad) and based on my anti-testimony, they too decide to leave the church. How can they justify the time, energy, headaches, stress, and MONEY that they have wasted for over 20 years of being members? I can only imagine my dad's anger at me for not telling HIM the TRUTH I knew all along! And suppose that they keep believing. How will they accept that their sacrament has been blessed and served by me, an atheist, before an entire congregation? How will my father accept that I have baptized his father, by proxy, in the temple, as an atheist? And yes, when the ward decides to have a freaking temple trip, I always go. It's part of my way of "hiding." Appearing as mormon as possible, until the great and terrible day, when I confess...
To all of you exmo teens out there reading this, who have somehow... SOMEHOW mustered up the courage to stand before your own parent(s), who have given you SO MUCH, and say that their religion can go FUCK ITSELF, BECAUSE YOU, BY YOUR OWN POWER, HAVE CHOSEN A DIFFERENT PATH FOR YOUR LIFE...
I just want to say to you, I am beyond fucking proud of you and I respect and admire you immensely. You have taken a powerful step in shaping your future and deserve only the best.