..did stuff you weren't supposed to with them before they left?
I know I've told this story before, but in the day we all had to go to SLC to the missionary home before going out. When I was there, LeGrand Richards came over and gave the ol' "..better dead than disgraced.." talk. He pretty much said that if you've masturbated or messed around with your g/f and haven't confessed, then you're gonna be screwed on you mission.
The "belated confessions" line went out the door that night and around the corner. I bet 50 elders confessed.
Oh yeah...lots of things we should have confessed to but never did. We never did the big S but everything else. I couldn't keep dh hands off me. And I tried. Same thing happened when he got home from his mission. At the temple recommend interview I lied like crazy when they asked the morality question. I'm sure I was really going to confess! But in looking back on what we did,I do wish there had been more respect for me. He was a horney bastard with no morals and no guilt.