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Posted by: imalive ( )
Date: February 20, 2012 06:43PM

Last week, I met this guy in his office and told him I did NOT like him asking my DS questions about masturbation, that it was MY BUSINESS to educate him about sexuality. Also, my DD is entering YW soon and I also informed him AGAIN that I'll be at every interview he will have with her. He took this well and said he was glad I let him know my preferences.

Well, tonight he called and is coming over soon with his family. It is my birthday so maybe that's it. I dunno. but at least it's on my turf and I can call the shots.

Just for the fun of it, I'm going to leave out my copy of Grant Palmer's "Mormon Origins" out and see if he notices, bwaa haa haa. LOL.

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Posted by: Lethbridge Reprobate ( )
Date: February 20, 2012 06:45PM

Offer him a Bud Light Lime!

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Posted by: matt ( )
Date: February 21, 2012 06:20AM

andyb Wrote:
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> Offer him a Bud Light Lime!

On second thoughts, don't. Offer him a real beer, instead! ;oD

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: February 20, 2012 06:48PM

Is it just me, or do mormons often seem to take what a person says reasonably and without drama, then come back with a crashing blow later?

I think they must be taught somehow to hold in their immediate reactions.

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Posted by: myselfagain ( )
Date: February 20, 2012 07:03PM

Cheryl Wrote:
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> Is it just me, or do mormons often seem to take
> what a person says reasonably and without drama,
> then come back with a crashing blow later?
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> I think they must be taught somehow to hold in
> their immediate reactions.

That's certainly been my experience at times.

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Posted by: WiserWomanNow ( )
Date: February 20, 2012 07:15PM

Be prepared, just in case.

Let us know how the visit goes!

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Posted by: peregrine ( )
Date: February 21, 2012 06:20AM

give an example of what you mean by a "crushing blow". Becuase so far my bish and SP have been very sweet and nice. I'm prepared for a crushing blow. Just wondering what yours was.

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Posted by: The StalkerDog™ ( )
Date: February 20, 2012 06:56PM

If so, is it convenient for you?

You don't HAVE to have this person in your home, you know, if it is not convenient for you.

It is still YOUR home, and he ain't the boss of it, tho he might act like he thinks he is.

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Posted by: ronas ( )
Date: February 21, 2012 06:16AM

IMO, if he is bringing over his family that's pretty non-threatenig. Likely he's impressed with you and respects you for standing up for your kids.

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Posted by: baura ( )
Date: February 21, 2012 07:34AM

Return and Report?

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Posted by: exmollymo ( )
Date: February 21, 2012 08:46AM

Happy belated birthday!

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Posted by: imalive ( )
Date: February 21, 2012 05:44PM

yea the bishop popped over with his wife and SEVEN KIDS with a birthday cake for me complete with lit candles. I even blew them out, then invited them in. Nope they didn't enter.

however, yes, a week ago, I did have a talk with this leader that HE WILL NOT ASK MY SON ANYMORE QUESTIONS ABOUT MASTURBATION OR ELSE HE'LL REALLY HEAR IT FROM ME!!!!! He was surprised but thanked me for letting me know how I felt. Now let's hope the guy will actually do this!

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Posted by: Raptor Jesus ( )
Date: February 21, 2012 07:13PM

Stick it to the man, imalive.

And you horrify your son with the masturbation is normal speech. He'll thank you later.

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Posted by: Charlie ( )
Date: February 21, 2012 07:07PM

I would announce that it time for the birthday circle j___.

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