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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 12:40AM

In an article in the Huffington Post, entitled, "Are Mormons Any Weirder Than the Rest of Us?," Rabbi Shmuley Boteach makes his case against that proposition with this opening statement:

"I have been close to Mormons ever since my days at Oxford when Michael Taft Benson, whose grandfather, Ezra Taft Benson, was the prophet of the Mormon Church at the time, became a member and then an elected officer of our L'Chaim Society at the University. Thus began a lifelong friendship that continues today, with many visits to lecture for Mike at Southern Utah University and other mostly Mormon academies of higher learning in the majority Mormon state.

"I have thus watched with mild amusement as the debate surrounding the beliefs of Mitt Romney and Jon Huntsman have gained steam. Aren't the Mormons weird fanatics? Should we treat people with such strange beliefs with high office?"

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rabbi-shmuley-boteach/are-mormons-any-weirder-t_b_1116390.html
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Hello, Rabbi--

My name is Steve Benson. I am the older brother of Mike Benson, president of Southern Utah University, and the oldest grandchild of Ezra Taft Benson, former president of the Mormon Church.

Yes, not only are Mormons weird, they are weirder than a lot of other people in their strange beliefs.

Perhaps you, me and Mike can get together sometime and I can tell you why Romney's weirdness (not necessarily Huntsman's) is grounds enough in my mind to not elect him president of the United States. We can go into that weirdness in more detail at that time, not here in the open where it could prove embarrassing to those within reading distance who might report it through the Mormon grapevine back to my family. (Perhaps we could meet at some nice little restaurant of your or Mike's choosing in Cedar City. I've been there several times and like the town, although I can't say whether it's up to Oxford's standards since I have never been to Oxford).

If you would like, maybe I can draw your caricature over lunch. I used to do that sort of thing at an amusement park in Texas, Six Flags, and with that penchant for doodling eventually was able to pull down the Pultizer prize.

Now, THAT'S weird.

Take care.

Ex-Mormon Steve Benson



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Posted by: OnceMore ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 12:52AM

Discussion of a debate in which Rabbi Boteach, Christopher Hitchens, Sam Harris, and Dan Dennett participated:

http://scienceblogs.com/pharyngula/2009/11/dennett_harris_hitchens_vs_bot.php

Comments about Boteach are revealing.

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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 01:14AM

Okay. That one (your letter) left me in tears. I needed that. Made me reflect on Cludgie talking about Ezra doodling on napkins . . . .



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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 02:37AM

He might show up for lunch just to get the free caricature from a Pulitzer prize winner. I would. :)

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 02:38AM


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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 02:41AM

I'm not sure why this is so funny to me . . . maybe its the idea of this guy engaging in a serious conversation about religion while you (respectfully) doodle his caricature . . . .



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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 02:44AM

I could tell some pretty funny stories about that; suffice to say that I've had the chance over the years to do it for some pretty prominent folks, including national leaders.

They're only human and whey you draw them, they tend to let down their guard and act human. :)

On the other hand, when I've cartooned Mormonism, I got grumpy complaints from my grandfather.



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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 02:54AM

That's interesting. It seems like the person is in a bit of a vulnerable position during the process.

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 02:56AM

Then when they see that it wasn't as bad as they may have expected, they look relieved, smile and crack some jokes.

It's actually kinda cool to see their inner child come out. :)



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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:00AM

I would think it would be a little hairy for you sometimes . . . you do have to show them when you're done. You could scar someone for life if you were feeling a bit mean-spirited. :)



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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:03AM

. . . and being that they're invited guests, I tend to go easy on them.



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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:14AM

I can imagine it must be fun. No matter who they are, they're in your element, so I can see how they might drop any facades and be more themselves. But for those who aren't invited guests . . . those are the ones I worry about (poor Rick Perry, for example). I've looked at some of your work on your paper's site. If people think you're rough on the boards here, they should try running for public office. I'd prefer to be an invitee.

I don't know if you can or want to, but it would fun if you shared some of your relevant works here (someone asking for another free gig). At least a teaser or two.



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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:28AM


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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:49AM

This is way off topic (and I'm still laughing about the letter - off and on tonight), but I'm wondering if you had to grow a thick skin or did it just come naturally. I've hadn't thought about just how much serious heat you must get in your line of work until tonight. I'm guessing that to be good, you have to be impervious to opinion or somehow block it out. How do you do it? I want me some of that . . .

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:51AM

Now back to rabbis, reason and religion. :)



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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 04:14AM

When I was in Paris one weekend I paid a street artist for a caricature, just one of those touristy things you do. Some French people don't like "l'anglaise" (go figure), this guy among them as the drawing he did was most unflattering. It was quite unpleasant for me to feel that level of spite, or whatever, from a stranger. He looked at me with a grin as I reacted with dismay. "And I'm paying you for making me feel bad" I thought but was too chicken to say anything to him.

I sought out a "second opinion" from another artist who rendered a sketch at the other end of the scale, so flattering that it doesn't resemble me at all, lol!

It feels good for a second to be flattered but too, I value reality.

I've seen some of Steve's editorial cartoons. The subjects in some of his artwork would surely feel good about how they come out of it while others may feel less positive about the "honour" when he highlights a moment in their lives they may wish to forget (or may hope the electorate would!).

For them it comes with the territory. For me I was paying the guy. That should get you some good will, no?

I only kept one of the drawings. :)

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 02:59PM


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Posted by: Shummie ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 11:03AM

steve benson Wrote:
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> I could tell some pretty funny stories about that;
> suffice to say that I've had the chance over the
> years to do it for some pretty prominent folks,
> including national leaders.
>
> They're only human and whey you draw them, they
> tend to let down their guard and act human. :)
>
> On the other hand, when I've cartooned Mormonism,
> I got grumpy complaints from my grandfather.


Did you say grumpy?

Folks, Steve has drawn plenty of nearly-famous sorts such as myself who are left smarting from his razor-sharp pen. Some of us fare better than others when Steve dishes out the just desserts.

In my case it was a mason's compass stuck in the side on my head in his doodle of me as a masonic bricklayer which he titled "Sure Sign of The Nailed".

Just be careful what you ask for from Steve. You always get more than you expect, believe me.

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 12:56PM


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Posted by: Shummie ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 01:10PM

steve benson Wrote:
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> n/t


And if the foo $hits, bare it.


;)


BTW, what is that cutsey little device called that you scribblers often use featuring miniature characters lurking at the bottom of the doodle while ad-libbing their two cents worth?

Ifyanowhatimean.

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:00PM


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Posted by: Shummie ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 09:27PM

steve benson Wrote:
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> It's called a crutch. :)

Ah so, I never would have guessed.

Anyway, the crutch you put in mine was waving her arms in the air and exclaiming "pay le bill", whatever that means.

Must be some Franglaise or something meaning god knows what.

One of my favorite art treasures in any event, that one.

Thanks again.

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 09:56PM


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Posted by: Shummie ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 10:06PM

steve benson Wrote:
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> n/t

My lips are sealed under penalty of extreme self loathing.



cough

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Posted by: Fetal Deity ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:30AM

Besides addressing its "weirdness," please also educate him on its inherent antisemitism, as well. You could start off with an unfortunate quote from Bruce R. McConkie, implying that the Jews have brought their misfortunes upon themselves:

“'Let the spiritually illiterate suppose what they may, it was the Jewish denial and rejection of the Holy One of Israel, whom their fathers worshiped in the beauty and holiness, that has made them a hiss and byword in all nations and that has taken millions of their fair sons and daughters to untimely graves.'”

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mormonism_and_Judaism#Other_Mormon_literature


Of course, McConkie was only echoing the Book of Mormon--the "KEYSTONE" of Mormonism:

"Wherefore ... it must needs be expedient that Christ ... should come among the Jews, among those who are the more wicked part of the world; and they shall crucify him ... and there is none other nation on earth that would crucify their God.

"For should the mighty miracles be wrought among other nations they would repent, and know that he be their God.

"But because of priestcrafts and iniquities, they at Jerusalem will stiffen their necks against him, that he be crucified.

"Wherefore, because of their iniquities, destructions, famines, pestilences, and bloodshed shall come upon them; and they who shall not be destroyed shall be scattered among all nations." (Book of Mormon | 2 Nephi 10:3 - 6)


Thanks for doing your part to rid the world of Mormonism, Steve! : )



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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 03:32AM


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Posted by: michael ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 01:18PM

there's one "small" correction. His name is Schmuley, not Schumley. It's a derivative of the name "Shmuel," which is Samuel in Hebrew.

The only reason I point it out to you is to give you a bit more credence when (not if, when) you send it to Rabbi Boteach.

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 09:36PM

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rabbi-shmuley-boteach/are-mormons-any-weirder-t_b_1116390.html

And why, then, is this note at the bottom of his article, which gives his website and twitter addys with the same spelling?:

"Rabbi Shmuley Boteach has just published of "Ten Conversations You Need to Have with Yourself" (Wiley) and will shortly publish "Kosher Jesus." Follow him on his website www.shmuley.com and on Twitter @RabbiShmuley."
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Here's what I think happened:

I originally misspelled his name as "Shumley." You then misspelled my misspell as "Schmuley," and from there went on to misspell what you thought was the correct spelling, by claiming that his name is spelled "Schmuley."

http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,354154,354484#msg-354484


His name appears, in reality, to be spelled "Shmuley" (not to be confused with the spelling of the name of another poster in this thread, "Shummie").

We all clear on this, now?

Geezus, er, Jeesuz, er, Cheesecrisp, er, Jesus.

Whatever. :)



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Posted by: michael ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 09:39PM

You're welcome. Please let us know what happens.

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 09:50PM


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Posted by: Anonymous User ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 02:12PM

but I am not sure he knows that. :-o

Its not surprising that he does not find the LDS that weird. His brand of Orthodox Judaism is one of those where the girls and women are required to dress 'modestly.' He likely won't notice that the burden of modesty always falls on the women.
Why can't these religious men get some self-control, rather than blaming immodest women for their lack of it?

Also, his daughters are taught that the highest aspiration for women is to be a mother. Again, mormonism won't seem strange in that respect.



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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 10:14PM


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Posted by: WiserWomanNow ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 11:27PM

Back when, I watched one of your videos on the Arizona Republic site. You drew a caricature of Obama. ALL I remember is my drop-jawed astonishment at how effortlessly you did it! In probably a half minute or less, a few curved lines created a clearly recognizable political figure.

We see caricatures in political cartoons all the time. But seeing the finished product is very different watching the process! I had never imagined how easily and quickly those caricatures could be drawn, by those with the artistic talent to do so!

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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 11:46PM

I've looked at some of his work on Arizona Republic website too. To state the obvious, its pretty amazing, not only the noodling and the humor . . . but its often very thought provoking. There's more information packed in some of his cartoons than his lengthy, well-researched posts here. :)



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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: November 30, 2011 11:55PM

I do both, depending on the situation.

My regular cartoons are largely created using a sable-hair brush and waterproof India ink on special illustration board, which takes much more time and control (laying down a pencil sketch first, then doing the ink overlay, while repeatedly dipping the brush into the inkwell and bringing the brush tip to a fine point by swirling it on paper to remove the excess ink load). There's also more deliberative drawing of the ink line in varying widths (depending on the pressure applied on the brush tip as it meets paper). Ink-and-brush is much more detailed, time-consuming and painstaking. I tend to make more mistakes in that kind of intricate work which needs ongoing correction--thereby keeping the white-out industry in business.

What you saw me do on the video was a quick-draw approach where, just using a magic marker, you can whip out a drawing pretty fast. I use that technique for short on-camera spots or for live-audience demonstrations, as well as for caricatures. If I employed this approach for creating my regular daily cartoon, I'd be out of the office a lot earlier but the cartoons wouldn't look as finished.



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Posted by: WiserWomanNow ( )
Date: December 01, 2011 12:41AM

Uh--YOU can. Those of us lacking artistic talents could not make a drawing look like a particular person, no matter what drawing implements we used or how long we worked at it!

I follow what you are saying about the greater effort required for your daily cartoons. And yet, to think of how to express one’s idea in cartoon form, much less to actually be able to draw the cartoon as one pictures it in one’s mind, is another talent baffling to the non-artist.

Nevertheless, we're happy to give you the credit for your creativity and skills, while we have the pleasure of enjoying the cartoons you come up with!

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: December 01, 2011 01:05AM


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Date: December 01, 2011 01:05AM


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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: December 01, 2011 02:30AM

At this point, I just want to see the doodle of the Rabbi - the look on his face - as you tell him how weird mormons are . . . .



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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: December 01, 2011 03:43AM


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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: December 01, 2011 03:49AM

I found the following email in my personal inbox from "Shmuley Boteach," dated Thursday, 1 December 2011, 1:05 a.m.:

"got your message, steve, via mike. did not see it on the website where you posted. i have heard a great deal about you from mike. would welcome speaking and getting to know each other G-d willing. have also seen many of your cartoons over the years and they're amazing.

"thank you

"shmuley"
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I like Mike. He's a good bro. Glad to see he's reading RfM.

I hope "shmuley" likes what I'd like to share with him.

I think I'll pursue the proposal for a meet-up between the three of us.

A Jewish rabbi, a LDS university president and an ex-Mormon cartoonist: Could be a trinity of trouble. Either that, or a tri-headed teach-in.

Stay tuned. :)



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