Posted by:
johntc
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Date: January 10, 2018 01:40AM
Hi all, Im 23 this year, and recently I got attached to a guy thats 51 (I know the huge age gap difference). It started off as a hook up initially but very soon, we both realised that we were attracted to each other's soul, and the chemistry between us is really great!
I know being together with him is not an easy feat, and I had warned him about the typical questions that he may get ie 'he's young enough to be your son', 'you're old enough to be his dad', 'im after his money' etc etc. And I know I will feel awkward if he invites him to meet his friends, and because of the age gap difference, I will definitely not fit in well. However, he told me that there are events just with his close friends (which he will introduce in due course) that I could join, and for other events, I can choose to sit out because he knows that it will be awkward for him to fit into my group of friends.
Despite all the differences, he still pretty much loved me a lot, and also introduced me to his really good friend (which is a female) for a start.
I really love him and I'm just wondering if there are anybody outside who are attached and with this huge age gap difference as well? Really wish to see if there are anyone experiencing similar situation as me. Any advice with this kind of relationship?
Just a little about myself, Im currently in Uni on a full-time scholarship, so I'm not keen with his wealth at all. I made it a point that he could not buy me anything, unless its for birthday because we have the same birthday month and I could get a gift for him as well.
Thank a lot! :)