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exminion
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Date: January 08, 2018 04:09PM
Badassadam wrote:
"And some times and most of the time the person they call crazy starts to believe that they really are crazy and sometimes it has tragic consequences."
We call that "gaslighting." Everyone associated with the Mormon cult needs to see that old movie!
If most of the people around you--your TBM neighbors, your TBM relatives, your TBM friends--suddenly start shunning you, and treat you as though you are a leper, you start to see yourself in their eyes, and believe you must be a leper.
One of the most valuable results of lurking on RFM for the past few years, has been to receive validation from you people. I am NOT imagining the way the Mormons are treating me! I know how they feel about me. I know how Thomas Monson told them to think about me: that I'm "lazy, offended, and wanting to sin." And the new accusation: I'm "mentally ill."
Even if you live a good, honest, moral life, and you have nothing to be ashamed of, the Mormons will MAKE UP LIES about you, and spread those lies. Yeah, More Money knows this, from the inside!
We ex-Mormons "have reasons" too. Most of us end up losing Mormon friends, Mormon parents and family relationships, and sometimes even spouses. This can happen no matter how hard we try, or how long we try, or how much we "overlook" the Mormon rudeness. There's a point where we must stop taking all the blame upon ourselves, and leave it up to the Mormons. All I ever did was seek the Truth and follow my heart, and I'm forever condemned for it. So, now, out of self-preservation, I avoid those who condemn.
I'm lucky that my life allows me to do this. Mormons have nothing to do with my family, career, hobbies, or relationships, and my SLC neighborhood has morphed into a mostly not-Mormon area. All around me, I see the Mormon cult dwindling in power, as people flee the wards, and we are down to one ward per stake for each (prime residential view-lot) stake house. Our stakes have known for years, that the cult is bleeding members--and that's why they have been so hysterical and abusive towards those who leave. For them, it's war!