It's a damn shame and they ought to ashamed of themselves. This isn't religion - it's maltreatment and a provoked threat.
Thank goodness my convert made it clear she has no plans on marrying a Mormon. She says she's too free-spirited and that there is more to her than being a Mormon. Good. Saves her the trouble when she figures out the sham.
I don't find that to be even close to an accurate representation of mormon beliefs. I'm assuming that was tongue in cheek?
In the mormon plan of salvation I was taught that just because you might not be able to go to a higher kingdom, there's nothing stopping those from higher kingdoms visiting those of lower kingdoms.