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Posted by: Joe the man ho & Brig the pig ( )
Date: November 09, 2017 01:16PM

Hurl there prissy stuffy little standards up onto all the rest of us?! So me and my family usually always go to this really yummy buffet on New Years eve and this year there havin it on a Sunday "oh NO!" How COULD they! And when my dad announced that my uber tbm sis in law pulled a face and said in a snotty voice "oh well we wont be goin to THAT this year then!" We will just have to go out to eat on Saturday then. Uuuuuggggghhh! Seriously! Do they not care or even BOTHER to ask what the rest of the family would like to do?! Its like they only care about them and there MORmONIC agenda and think the rest of us should have to attend to all there MORmONIC stuffy needs! Its SO annoying!

It sucks cause my parents would now not even care that's its on Sunday and would go anyways. My mom was like well we could just go without them but the problem is they already think we now goin out on Saturday instead and I just hate to make my dad take us all out twice ya know? I would feel bad. I would just tell them! "Well either come on Sunday or else stay home!" But its really up to my dad and he already told them wed go Saturday hes had a hard year and I don't want to put him in a difficult situation if ya know what I mean. We might still go anyways my mom said the problem is they always come over on Sunday after church so we would have to come up with an excuse to not have them over "they still think my parents are lds" haven't found that out yet. I'm leaving that up to my parents to decide when to tell them. Do NOT want to get in the middle of THAT one!

They know me and my bro aren't mormon though and they didn't even bother to ask if that was ok with us!
It just sucks cause me my parents and my cool exmo bro all want to go but of course they just HAVE to butt in and control everything! Its not even so much just missing the buffet that bothers me its just the way they always feel there needs are more important than others and not even bother to ask what everyone else would like to do. And do they REALLY think God would look over there life and say "oh you made it to heaven!" " oh wait a minute! Looks like you went out to eat for a couple hours one new years eve so nope sorry actually your goin to hell! I mean huuumph! The terrestrial telestrial kingdom! One of the t kingdoms anyway!...gosh its so stupid! Oh and get this so my mom told me that she read somewhere that Tommy boy and his family used to go out to eat at the beehive house or somewhere by it every SUNDAY hows that for hypocrisy?!!!!!!! Man!

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Posted by: Joe the man ho & Brig the pig ( )
Date: November 09, 2017 01:20PM

Oh I know we could just tell them we got the flu and are hurling our guts out got sick from being around there MORmONNESS the night before so they probably don't want to come over the next day on Sunday and get puked on and then we can go to the buffet without them! Haha!

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Posted by: cheezus ( )
Date: November 09, 2017 01:22PM

Lots of TBM families are born with or catch the MORmONIC plague.

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Posted by: rubi123 ( )
Date: November 09, 2017 02:22PM

Sounds like you can do something fun with other people on New Year's Eve. And enjoy the time with your family the day before.

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: November 11, 2017 06:54AM

I agree with Ruby. Since your dad is the host, and gets to decide, enjoy family time on Saturday and make other plans for Sunday.

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Posted by: Chicken N. Backpacks ( )
Date: November 09, 2017 02:55PM

Supplicant: "Hey, Heavenly Father, there's this yummy New Year's Eve buffet we always go to but this year it's on a Sunday and I don't think I should go. What do you think?"

A Nice God: "Don't worry, enjoy yourself--it's my favorite buffet too!"

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Posted by: Badassadam1 ( )
Date: November 09, 2017 03:10PM

There is hypocrisy abounds in the church. The general authorities don't pay tithing but say we will burn if we don't for example. I remember a guy in my ward got pissed that i bought taco bell on a sunday. Jesus f#cking healed on a sunday for christ's sakes. I was starving so i needed quick food, i ain't going to starve for your religion anymore sorry.

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Posted by: Aquarius123 ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 05:13PM

A couple in my ward many years ago would not cut on the tv on sunday because it was making people work on sunday. She sewed bathing suits that looked like 1900's. They put down those who cut on sprinklers on sunday because it was a sophistocated way to break the Sunday holiness thing. God, I'm glad to be away from people like them. Dumbasses.

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Posted by: Badassadam1 ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 05:18PM

The whole no doing anything on sunday could make someone insane i swear.

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Posted by: tig ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 06:32PM

Tell them that you are sorry you can't go on Saturday because you are observing the sabbath.

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Posted by: sillyGoose2 ( )
Date: November 11, 2017 06:44AM

Why would they ask you your opinion. You are defective and lacking in standards. You need them to guide you in making correct decisions. If they lead by example you will eventually make it back into the fold. Or if not, then you will at least not spread your corruption to others.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: November 11, 2017 11:28AM

Sadly, going ahead with it would likely cause more trouble than it's worth.

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