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luckylucas
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Date: November 08, 2017 07:30AM
Today I read an article from Zelph on the shelf, and while reading it, I remember one thing (that now embarrased me a lot).
Last year, one sunday I was ill with a horrible flu, coughing a lot and I could barely talk, that sunday I had to give a speech but due to my unhealthy condition I phone my bishop and told him that I wasn't going to go to church. The thing is that I didn't go because I thought I couldn't give the speech, I didn't go because I thought that it wouldn't be unacceptable for the lord that in his day I gave a speech in such a crappy state. What's more I always felt shame of myself for being continually unhealthy (which surely lead to being unhealthy again).
I felt that way because mormonism makes you think that you must continuosly please someone else (God, Bishop, SP, etc), and that you are never good enough to be a worthy member of "the one and true church" (Even though in my two years of being a member I read the BoM 10 times [in 4 different languages], 6 times the triple combination and 1 time the bible, I went proselytizing with the misssionaries at least once a week after being baptized [usually twice a week],I went to institute classes and I had three callings, I was 3rd sunday's teacher in EQ, YM's 1st counselor and YM president).
It wasn't until I was mistreated that I realized that I was a good person and I didn't deserve to have been treated in that way. After that day I stopped thinking that I was a shame for myself, and gradually I started loving myself, and loving the people who love me for the way I am.
It seems now, that I thought this in such a distant time when it was last year LOL.
Link for the article:
http://zelphontheshelf.com/how-i-healed-from-mormonism-and-found-true-joy/