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Date: October 27, 2017 05:50PM
Google "automatic thinking scripts" or "automatic thinking" and you will come up with a number of relevant hits.
Board member SusieQ#1 has written about automatic thinking scripts on a number of occasions. Here is an archived thread with her thoughts on the matter, and some hard-won wisdom from other board members:
http://exmormon.org/d6/drupal/Does-the-anger-ever-endI can tell you as a born-and-raised Catholic that I lived with similar automatic thinking scripts for many years, especially regarding sexuality. It was like my thinking, rational mind was far ahead of my religiously-conditioned mind. What helped was the mature reflection that comes with time and experience. I finally came to the conclusion, "It's just sex." It's not deserving of the mental angst that so often comes along for the ride. No one ever suffered any lasting damage from my mutually agreeable sexual encounter with them. Nor did I.
As for people with very different lifestyles and opinions, my go-to thought has become, "They don't need my permission to be happy." Also, "It's a big country, and there is room for everyone." My career in urban education has definitely made me a more tolerant and broad-minded person.
The late Blair Watson wrote about the psychological effects of Mormonism. His writings may be of interest to you:
http://blairwatsontribute.net/Psychological/Effects_of_Mormonism.htmlEdited 2 time(s). Last edit at 10/27/2017 05:51PM by summer.