Posted by:
Mark Vreeland
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Date: November 17, 2011 06:55AM
To my son "BR.Vreeland" and in response to this forum about Impact. Approx a year ago. Yeah I ran across it through a friend who noticed it. It was good to see that you acknowledged something positive out of it. You hadn't shared that with me directly before. So it was a bit refreshing to see of your honest thoughts. There certainly would be more if you had done it at an older age and had repeated it in volunteerism as a staffer. You were quite young but you met by interview/exception the criteria of a very bright intelligent 14yr old beyond their now 18yr old requirement (16 at the time) ... I think largely because of your tremendous reading practices over the years. Literacy and being able to connect the dots is largely tied to EDUCATION.
You may not know this but your GPA Henson finished only the first level with your aunt Debbie (Quest)....well he was quite inspired at the time (also a great study/reader) enough to take it to his peers at his employer (AAI) and encourage others about it. Why? Because he took in the overall scope of realizing the distress of shame and child abuse. Permission to "come out" about ones ailments. The unlayering of the onion of abuse, instability, fear, ptsd, etc symptoms. It's all education for healing and bringing one to awareness. That's all it is....yet highly dynamic. There is no silver bullet, pill, program that can right our ailments without applying the learned principles learned along our path in life. There is a multiple ingredient recipe for workable balanced solutions...and Impact continues to have my endorsement as do other educational programs that are affordable and worthwhile in efforts as well. There are MANY. Unfortunately many are too expensive for the average. In some cases in patient or even out patient in THOUSANDs of $ in enrollment costs. Much more than the Impact types.
BTW....the program averages about 150hrs in totality of all three levels. $1500. Not much when one considers the benefits and then being able to go back and volunteer/give back (as I have done numerous times), practice, and continue to retrain the brain. I see it as moving towards healing and freedom. My particular circumstances allowed me to repeat, pick up more, give back as I continue to do, yet at the time I still had connection to some old influential relationships of dysfunction and shame/negativity. The other element I was unaware of at the time in the early 90s was that I was in serious prediabetic condition (later revealed in 2004). Untreated off the charts genetic cholesterol & triglycerides damaging the pancreas. Improper nutrition and poor exercise habits. Affecting depression and judgement, mood, brain chemistry, etc.
MORE OFTEN than not....the mentally unstable (simple depression included) are in need of taking things down in this form of group therapy...much cheaper than treating only with drugs, incarceration, steeped in shame and addictions. So I also do embrace the notion that our perceptions and self identity can be enhanced by letting it out having permission in a confidential enviroment...not posted to facebook/internet or in the newspaper. People may violate the rules...but the benefits far outweigh the money/effort spent/and any perceived risks....at the end of the day. A great program being around for nearly 25yrs now. Haans Berger was my primary trainer. It was very inspirational, revealing, and powerful with plenty of AHAs. Nothing is perfect and you only get out of something what you put into it in personal efforts. USE IT OR LOSE IT. My opinion. "I AM A WHOLE FREE GIVING AND LOVING MAN" LO #56 1992. Check the following two links that is authentic for those that engage the processes entirely/completely:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HehMDlMY5ug&feature=player_embedded#!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xasi1g8IRSk&feature=player_embeddedFurther...I am personally aware that world renown Elizabeth Kubler-Ross (who brought "Hospice" to this country known as the "Death and Dying Lady").... previously ran a very much similar program, in fact almost identical to Impact processes/format at her Head Waters,VA farm back in the '90s before her passing..... I know of it's content as well due to the "Parade" magazine writing a detailed article on it by a participant/newswriter. I've been in touch with her son who continues her foundation out of Scottsdale, AZ. It is ALSO interesting to note that the book "Homecoming" by John Bradshaw essentially addresses the same principles of shame and various addictions/child abuse...during the first of three levels at Impact (Quest). In my recoveries and discovering love, forgiveness, freedom...I've used all three resources in an overall recipe for wellness of body mind and spirit.