Date: August 11, 2017 06:13PM
My dad was raised Episcopalian, but he agreed to marry my mom in the Catholic church and to raise his kids Catholic. He made that accommodation because he loved my mom. He never formally joined the Catholic church. He always put family well ahead of any church requirements or demands.
I would not fee guilty about the decisions that your husband has made. I think the fact that you had different reaction your first time through the temple tells the tale. The church works for him. If your marriage is good, I would not let your husband's church involvement trouble you.
SusieQ#1 has written a great post (that she reposts periodically) about how to make it work with a believing spouse. I don't know if this is the most recent version, but this is what I pulled up:http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,1274642