Posted by:
Amyjo
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Date: August 08, 2017 09:45AM
So said a police detective where my daughter stayed for several months the first time she disappeared from home unannounced. His daughter is the same age as mine, and they befriended each other.
They worshiped together at the same house of worship, etc.
I'd call periodically to check on her, and this was one thing he assured me, was that she would never be homeless.
Now she's living overseas, and is reportedly telling a former rabbi that she's now homeless & unable to access medical care in a country that provides socialized medicine.
He's trying to get help to her, with my blessing. And so have I been. It is hard because she doesn't maintain ties or communication with anyone in our family. Even the rabbi has a difficult time trying to solicit information on how she's doing.
As worried as I am for her about her situation (what parent would wish that upon their child?) Is when I remembered the police detective's words to me that "Your daughter will never be homeless."
With her BPD, it is possible she's spinning another yarn, and we are falling for it. But like the boy who cried wolf too many times, I don't want to trivialize where she's coming from - because she does need help. As a parent I will continue to do what I can to help her be in a better position to help herself.
It's been heartbreaking nonetheless to have to deal with. What parent would wish BPD, homelessness, a critical illness, etc. upon a child, or themself?
And the Mormon bishop who harbored her for six months in complete secrecy prior to her disappearance overseas can go to hell ! If anyone is evil it is he and his moronic wife.
The rabbi has tried to do everything in his power to be an intermediary for my daughter and me.
The bishop did everything in his power to divide us and sever familial ties between mother and daughter. While their own adult daughter lived with them under their roof at the same time. That's pure evil!
If that isn't a hallmark of a CULT, I don't know what is.