Posted by:
Xander91
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Date: August 06, 2017 02:52PM
So, my parents have always been really strict when it comes to jobs/schooling. They take career paths really seriously and want my siblings and I to be the best of the best.
My dad is a police officer, my mom was in the military for a while before she became a full-time stay-at-home mom, both of my brothers are police officers, and my sister is going into forensics.
I always assumed I'd do something similar since it was almost expected, but a couple of years ago, I found that my calling in life is to be a firefighter. During the first year of college, I trained vigorously and studied up on the tests and stuff. Last week, I finally came out and said that this was what I wanted to do. I told them that I was going to the academy and then go on to do medical training at a community college (aiming for EMT for now).
But, apparently this was a problem. My parents both said that I was throwing away a future and that law enforcement had much better prospects. I reiterated that I wanted to be a firefighter and my dad got a little bit upset about it. Not like mad, but the annoying "I'm very disappointed in you" type of thing and he gave me the cold shoulder for a while.
Today, he sat down with me and said that I really needed to pray about this. I'm a questioning Mormon right now, so I just said "sure."
I don't understand WHY this was such a cause for drama. I feel really good about this decision and it's something I believe in. I want to help the community and this is a great opportunity. I know it will be a hard road, but I'm willing to do it.
Anyway, sorry to vent. It's disheartening that I don't have much support from my family right now. I thought they'd be proud of me.