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Date: June 20, 2017 04:50AM
"Both her parents were taken aback by their daughter's desire to come out in front of her church.
"I was mostly nervous for her and where this would take her as a 12-year-old girl," said Josh, her father. Josh and Savannah are still members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the official name of the church.
Heather left the church a year and a half ago after official church policy documents were leaked online in 2015.
Those documents, confirmed by the church to CNN to be authentic, apostatize same-sex couples who marry and bar any of their children from blessings or baptism until they themselves reach legal age. They remain church policy.
Official church policy welcomes members of the Mormon faith that have same-sex attractions. They say it's possible to be "Mormon and gay."
Church teaching, however, mandates that members with same-sex attractions cannot act on those feelings. They must remain celibate and they cannot get married to members of the same sex.
"It resonated in my heart that it felt wrong," said Heather, speaking about those policies. Her "inklings" about Savannah's sexuality kept running through her mind.
The family gathered, walking Savannah through the good and the bad that could come from her speech. They walked through what the Mormon Church teaches about same-sex attraction.
"We let her make that decision, not us," Josh said pointedly. "I had nothing to do with ... coercing her or anything.",,,
"We came to the conclusion it wasn't our place; we couldn't silence her," said Heather. "It would be giving her a bigger message that she wasn't allowed to speak or there was something wrong with her...."
Savannah's bishop, Judd Law, had this to say to CNN:
"In the emailed statement to CNN, Law took issue with the recorded video, saying it was unauthorized.
Additionally, he said that a "group of visitors jubilantly left the service. ... Everyone is welcome and understands the standards of decorum and behavior if they decide to participate. It is unfortunate that this group of adults chose to violate them."
Law said the video was being exploited for "political purposes."
But Savannah's parents don't see it that way. They say they didn't witness anyone being disruptive. They also say there was no "group" present.
"Savannah invited a few close friends as allies," Heather tells CNN, responding to the statement from the local bishop. "There was no group."... [note however that the "friends" were adults present, not Savannah's age, and from the LGBT community.]
"This incident has created some tender emotions, first and foremost for a brave young girl," said Law in his emailed statement to CNN. "As a congregation, we continue to reach out, and do all that we can to make sure she knows that we love her and her family."
Demonstrating his love for her by cutting off the mike and telling her to sit back down. Is that love, or a Mormon version of "tough love?" Because it isn't what Jesus would do, though it doesn't appear he was consulted! I'm calling bullarkey!
http://www.cnn.com/2017/06/19/us/coming-out-as-mormon-and-gay-trnd/index.htmlEdited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/20/2017 04:52AM by Amyjo.