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summer
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Date: April 20, 2017 05:52PM
I'm at a loss as to how some random person feels that they have more say than an immediate family member of the deceased.
Each state has laws that govern who has the right to make funeral and burial arrangements. Often under law, the written wishes of the deceased take precedence. Immediate family members will normally have precedence as well.
From a quick web search, I pulled up the law for Utah:
Utah law determines who can make decisions about funerals and body disposition -- that is, burial or cremation -- after someone dies. This right and responsibility goes to the following people, in order:
a person you name in an approved, written document before your death
your surviving spouse
the personal representative of your estate, if you name one in your will
your adult child or a majority of your children if there is more than one
your parents
your adult sibling or a majority of your siblings if there is more than one
your adult next of kin in the order named by law to inherit
your estate
a public official, or
any other person willing and able to take on the job.
(Utah Code § 58-9-602.)
If there are two or more members of a class described above -- for example, if you have several adult children or many siblings -- and a majority of them cannot agree, a probate court must resolve their dispute. (Utah Code § 58-9-605.) To avoid such an outcome, it’s wise to name a representative in advance.
http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/making-funeral-arrangements-utah.html