Posted by:
valkyriequeen
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Date: March 19, 2017 12:27PM
Sorry folks, I guess I'm venting because sometimes it's not so great being grandparents with fellow grandparents who are TBM's. Our daughter and son-in-law are still TBM and his whole family is TBM. Since day one, his family has shunned my family and when there has been get-togethers, like our son-in-law's BYU graduation dinner at a restaurant, it was like there was crime scene tape around us,dividing us from them. His dad is nice enough, but his mom and sisters are something else. We were attending the oldest grandaugher's ( 7 years old) indoor soccer game, and every time, without fail, when his parents also attend, no one says hi or hi grandpa and gramma. Our son-in-law coaches the team, and he will talk with his parents, but won't even acknowledge us. We always get together with DD,SIL, and grandkids on Sundays at our house for dinner and things are good then, but not with things like this. When we left, we were making small talk with his dad, and his mom has her back to us,facing and talking with our grandkids and how excited she was to get together with them later for a Real soccer game. As we left to go to our car, none of the grandchildren or anyone said goodbye or we love you or nothing. My husband had to be the one to say "we'll see you later, "Johnny"to our SIL. He replied: "ok, see ya". No "thanks for coming to her games", nothing. I am still fuming and trying to analyze them. I realize his mom is very insecure, but this has been going on for years. I'm glad for our get togethers at home,but sometimes it just plain hurts.