Posted by:
SusieQ#1
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Date: January 16, 2017 03:15PM
Now it is time to take your power back and own it! When you do that with an attitude of gratitude and appreciation you'll find a whole new future for yourself, that is all about freedom. Time to own you and your life. You can do it.
I get the whole thing: marry young, have a bunch of kids, postpone your education = exhaustion! I was a dedicated temple going, active Mormon for many decades as a young adult convert! It's never totally your life. The expectations are huge. Been there done that.
I set some goals for myself, somewhere along the line. Laughter, being positive, and happy were all in my control. Nobody could take those from me. When I left the LDS Church I took total control and my total freedom back, in my late 50's. I could think, believe, read, and do what I wanted. I could still be me while taking adult education classes, going out into the world in employment, meeting different people with different ideas.
I'm long past those days now and I can attest that my life as a senior, widow is full because I have learned to enjoy life and take my power back and own it. I have some medical issues that limit what I can do physically, however, that does not limit my mind. Not one bit!
I've determined to have a positive attitude. Life is short and for me, getting shorter. I'm happy to wake up and get up every morning, no matter how hard it is to get out of that bed! :-)
My suggestion is that you find something you love to do that is fun, creative, gives you a feeling of accomplishment that is just about you, personally. I have several little hobbies that keep my mind on doing something positive and sharing with my family and friends.
Happiness is an inside job. I believe that wholeheartedly. Find somethings in your life that bring you joy. Maybe it's a child's smile, or their goofy jokes, or how they say silly things. Maybe it's jokes, or cat videos! Find those things, whatever they are and cherish them. I learned to do that, but it took me awhile.
Our lives fall in: Times and Seasons. This is the Season of my senior years. As a widow, I've lived alone for sometimes, however, I have a son here helping me now which was a huge surprise!
People here care! They are full of suggestions often those ideas that worked for them.
Each person has a different perspective and a different World View. And, in my case, as well as many others, that World View has gone through some major changes.
I'm a believer in our lives being full of opportunities. Nothing is a waste. Regrets are self-sabotage.
Find the sunshine, and let it envelop you! :-)