Posted by:
SoCal Apostate
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Date: December 15, 2016 12:22AM
This thread springs from the Alan Thicke thread. The original post is about the fourth or fifth reply in that thread and reads as follows:
RIP to a classy actor and a genuinely good person.
***Hijack in progress, resolution coming soon.***
I have a dear friend who is a live-in, part-time employee at Alan's ranch in Carpenteria. I haven't called him yet, as I don't want to get in the way during the intense times that must be going on for those close to the family, but am sure that he and his wife are both grieving and also worried about what the future will bring.
To bring this back on subject of ex-Mormonism, as an atheist, I find it harder to communicate my empathy. "I'm sending prayers" now translates to "I'm dong nothing, but I'll invoke the name of a made-up, all-important sky-daddy to make the point that I care."
That message is idiotic to me now (I am not saying that believers are idiotic, but that non-believers using "sending prayers" as a means to express empathy is idiotic).
I do have my own thoughts on getting around this problem, and have a few things that I will be dong for my friend over the coming days and weeks, so this isn't a cry for help, but rather a request for thoughts and discussion on the subject to see what we can come up with.
***It just hit me that this is a major hijack, so please don't respond here. I'll leave this post here to direct traffic, but please let the thread here remain for condolences, reflection, and whatever else is appropriate for the OP's intentions. I'll start a new thread and post a link after a quick break to deal with a couple of other things.***
I'll cross-link the posts as soon as I figure out how to do so. If anyone accomplishes that for me before I get there, your effort would be greatly appreciated.