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Lot's Wife
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Date: December 04, 2016 04:08PM
This is a great discussion. My comments are mainly aimed at what Dagny wrote but are relevant to a lot of the other posts, so I'll put it here at the bottom.
Dagny's point is that if there is an atrocity that society does not want to address, you need an extreme force (Malcolm X) to frighten people enough that they'll look at the issue and then embrace a relatively moderate solution (Martin Luther King). This is politically true. Perhaps an even better example, if more shocking, is the Palestinian problem. The Palestinians were a people in control of a land. A mass influx of Jews shifted the balance of power, and then well-trained Jewish Terrorists (Menachim Begin's crowd, for one) drove the British out in the late 1940s. Voila. No Palestinian state.
The solution to this, for the Palestinians, was terrorism. A wave of terror extending well outside of Palestine and harming Europe, the US and a lot of other peoples and regions. Over time the Palestinian terrorism became such a problem that outsiders felt they had to intervene to stabilize the situation. They did that by embracing a relatively moderate terrorist regime and giving it a Palestinian state and then effective recognition by the US, Europe, Japan, Egypt and many other governments. Support for the more extreme Palestinian movements ebbed substantially and the new state was relatively stable. The solution was partial but it helped considerably, and it was the only way the Palestinians were able to get the world to stop ignoring their right for at least part of Palestine. So I accept the Malcolm X argument and believe it, historically and politically, is often valid.
In my view Mormonism exhibits the same dynamics but in a more subtle way. There already is a Mormon Malcolm X, a collective Malcolm X, who is furiously lashing out at the members. That Malcolm X comprises the modern secularization that is undermining all churches, the prominent and now popular atheist writers and speakers, the ready availability of Mormon history and, most importantly, the cruel and inhumane men who run the LDS church. Malcom X destroys women, gay people, the children of gay people, married couples, families, and indoctrinated children. The vast majority of Mormons have encountered Malcolm X. They have seen him lurking in the foyer, staring sullenly from a corner of the ward library, even checking his email during Sunday School. He frightens them.
These forces are putting immense pressure on Mormons inside the church and making it difficult for them to remain. In short, hundreds of thousands of LDS members are already in a position like reasonable northern white people during the civil rights movement or Europeans and Americans shocked by Palestinian atrocities in Israel and Europe. They are frightened by the church on the one hand, the ex-Mormon world on the other, and intuitively inclined to seek a moderate alternative.
If this is correct, then what is missing is the equivalent of a Martin Luther King--someone who is relatively warm, relatively reasonable and who espouses a vision of freedom. That is the role I think we in the ex-Mo community can and should play. Intellectually there are many examples of this, each of whom may be criticized on various levels--Jeremy Runnels, John Dehlin, Kate Kelly, Infants on Thrones, the Mormon Youtube girl, the pro-LGTBQ Mormons and sympathizers. But no matter what one thinks of any of these individually, they collectively focus on problems and discuss them in a moderate manner; they discuss, and embody, a moderate alternative between what the church claims to be and what it actually is.
Our role can be the emotional complement to that intellectual alternative. Troubled Mormons need emotional bridges from dissonant membership in the church to ex-mormonism. They need people who will listen and perhaps provide a little direction from time to time. They need empathy, as evidenced by USN77 and others who plant a seed and let it reach fruition on its own time. If offered that emotional support, my guess is that the next decade or two could bring half a million defections. And as those people move, others will start to look more deeply at the church and then already have a network of friends and family on the outside to help them make their own transitions.
The worst thing we could collectively do (recognizing, of course, that every individual situation is different) is to make Malcom X look reasonable. How do we do that? By becoming more shocking, more threatening than the church has already made itself appear. Expressed differently, we shouldn't persecute Mormons since that will put them on the defensive, vindicate the church's nonsense about persecution in the last days, and encourage members NOT to look objectively at the church.
The Church is Malcolm X. He is doing our work for us. We need primarily to be available and sympathetic.