Posted by:
ificouldhietokolob
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Date: October 26, 2016 07:35PM
I have an update...
I spent about 1.5 hours on the phone with "Membership Records" (in case anyone needs it, the phone # is 801-240-2053). A cheery "sister" answered.
I explained that I left the church in 1981, and was dismayed to find out this week that I had been excommunicated. I explained that I had received no notice of a church court, no letter detailing the results of any such court, or any notice that I had been excommunicated. And that I wanted to know the reason for the excommunication.
First, she told me I should contact my bishop from that time. I reminded her that this was 35 years ago, and that the bishop had died 7 years ago -- and that the stake president was also dead, so please don't suggest I contact him. She then put me on hold for about 15 minutes.
When she came back, she said she couldn't tell me anything over the phone, but if I'd give her my membership # and current address, she would mail me the information. I let her know that a) I didn't have a membership #, and b) I had no desire whatsoever to give the church my current address, and c)after keeping me in the dark 35 years, it shouldn't be too much of an imposition to look up my records and tell me over the phone.
Back on hold for another 10-12 minutes.
Now a "brother" came on. He said he might be able to help me if I gave him some information. So he asked for, and I provided, date of birth, parents' names, date (and location) of baptism, date (and location) of endowment -- fortunately I had all the correct dates from what my aunt had sent me, so I didn't have to go from memory on those. He seemed impressed that I got all the dates correct (he was confirming them on his computer) -- I didn't tell him I had the records my aunt sent over. I gently pointed out, in case it would help, my close relation to a former SLC church big-wig. Hey, it couldn't hurt, right?
So he gets all my information, confirms that my record does indeed say "excommunication," then puts me on hold again.
For another 10 minutes.
He finally comes back, and says if I'd like a copy of the actual letter the SP sent out (which he never actually DID send), it would take them a few weeks, and I'd have to give them my address. I told him I just wanted to know the reason for the excommunication, which he could tell me over the phone.
He paused. I heard a few keys tap. Pause again.
"Apostasy," he said.
"That's all it says?" I asked.
"Yes."
"Nothing about at my own request?"
"No."
I thanked him. I told him that if I decided I wanted a copy of the letter, I'd get back to them. I hung up.
Then I said a few choice swear words about the cult.
Asshats.