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catnip
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Date: September 28, 2016 11:34PM
TBM DH ordered a Long Island Iced Tea with dinner at the most posh restaurant in town! Apostate daughter and I were with him. I don't think he was overly impressed with it, but he finished it. That's the first time I have seen him drink alcohol, and we have been married for nearly 25 years.
I think part of his restraint has been the WoW, but also, he grew up with a non-member father who was a TERRIBLE alcoholic, and he grew up with that dreadful example. I think he has also been afraid that he would LIKE alcohol too much, and wind up like his father. Based on tonight's experience, I don't think that will be a problem. It was more like checking something else off a "To Do at Least Once in Your Life" list.
He sipped a little bit at a time throughout the meal, and said that he didn't notice feeling any different when supper was over.
If nothing else, I think this shows that the church is losing its choke-hold on him, and that is worth celebrating. Woo-hoo!!