Posted by:
AfraidOfMormons
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Date: August 06, 2016 06:52PM
Thank you for this thread.
Now, I think about it, "something was lost forever," is a good describing it. I'm not broken. When I first resigned, I wanted to fill that (perceived) emptiness with something else. But, after 7 years out, not so much. I'm happier than I've ever been! I use that inner space for moving-room, trying things out, exploring, learning. The emptiness is peaceful, simple, and restful, like meditation, sort of. Tearing out all the roots of Mormonism, released their stranglehold on my growth.
So much of what I thought I had, was false. My parents didn't love me more than the cult. They didn't love me unconditionally. They were most concerned about how I appeared to others--pretty ribbons in my curls, nicely dressed, polite, musically talented pianist, cheerleader, pursued by the snobby Ivy League Mormon men, Geisha wife, pregnant SAHM. Nothing was real. Both of my Mormon husbands did not love me, my family was ashamed of me when I was divorced TWICE. I lost my family and all my Mormon friends, when I left the cult. It was all broken to begin with. My new life includes my children and grandchildren, business friends, Non-Mormon friends, and a few relatives who also left the cult. I no longer fear the Mormon God and His polygamous heaven. I believe in the Universe, and that we are all "made of the same star stuff" no matter what race, religion or lifestyle we are part of. As long as one don't lose the ability to love, one can keep generating life and joy.
No, I'm not broken. I'm healed.