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Xyandro
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Date: May 03, 2016 04:54PM
My non-believing oldest brother has decided to have a temple marriage since the girl he's been dating (who honestly seems really good with him and a good person) has always wanted the temple experience.
This is his fourth marriage, second in the temple (first was long ago when he was still TBM).
I'm sure they'll invite all the family to attend the temple session and have those who aren't "worthy" pass the time in the waiting room (probably watching the kids). They'll have a reception afterwards which I plan on attending.
I was initially dead-set against going to their "sealing". It's disgusting the Mormon church feels it has any right to judge whether *I* am worthy, since it is a horrible, putrescent dung-pile. Standing outside is a Mormon humiliation, which doesn't bother me, but my family will think it, which does. Plus, I don't want anything to do with Mormon exclusion from weddings, and it seems being there is a kind of tacit support.
And finally, if I were really invited, I would be able to see the ceremony, dumb as it is. Since I can't, I don't feel that I'm really invited.
My husband feels differently. He figures that this is taking focus away from the couple and turning their special event into a moral stand. He mentioned when my other brother left his kids home from our (gay) wedding and how we felt about that.
What do you exmos think?
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/03/2016 05:00PM by Xyandro.