Posted by:
Breeze
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Date: February 13, 2016 03:02AM
The Mormon cult and its members are experts at "gaslighting" people. I live in Utah, and my children and I are constantly exposed to how wonderful Mormonism is, how happy the Mormons appear to be on Facebook, how prosperous the Mormons neighbors are, how perfect their marriages and children are, etc.
It's like 1984 around there. The Mormon neighbors act like we ex-Mormons are crazy, when the Mormons are the ones who are crazy. Some of the neighbors still believe Joseph and Emma were the perfect couple. They still have Relief Society lessons about the ideal marriage of those two. They still revere Joseph and the other early polygamous prophets, devoting an entire RS year of lessons on each one!
Mormons still say, "The Mormon church is the best way to raise children." They still believe that apostates are evil. Some TBM neighbors have dis-owned their own children for leaving the cult. And now there's the added vindictive hatred of gay parents and their children.... Anyway, this is NOT NORMAL human behavior.
YOU and other non- and ex-Mormons are not the odd-ones-out, yet we are made to feel that way. Shunning is abusive, and manipulative, and messes with your emotions. Lying messes with your mind. Mormon play-acting, denials of truths, changing their history--all these things make you doubt yourself.
You are buying into the PR hype!
TSCC pays madison avenue advertising firm many thousands of dollars to keep the Mormon cult in the rosy spotlight. They call it "heart-sell." The same firm advertises the American Red Cross.
Were you exaggerating? Maybe if you had stayed in the cult--maybe if you went back to it now--the threats would end, and you would be granted all those promised blessings of social acceptance (If you obey, magnify your callings and pay tithing, you might feel accepted, maybe.) success, money, a beautiful virgin spouse. Everything but love, sanity, confidence, self-esteem, autonomy, freedom of thought and speech.
Here's a little test for you, if you aren't exactly sure:
Go to the Mormon church. Go for the whole 3 hours. Dress appropriately. Listen in class. Be friendly with the people. Sing the words to the hymns. Observe how you feel. Do you feel the love of Christ? Do you feel uplifted? Do you feel like you belong? Would you like to be one of these people? Would you like your children to be part of all that?
Still not sure, one way or another? Then, go to church for as long as it takes. Religion is a personal thing. In America we enjoy freedom of religion, and it should be your own choice.
Only you can know if you were exaggerating.
I have no doubts, because my children shared many of the abusive experiences with me. They can back me up, word-for-word, what happened. They also witnessed the harassment and slander of my character--because they were there.
In addition to my "witnesses", I have the witness of my own soul.
Like Greyfort, Woodsmoke, and Don Bagley, I have do doubts that Mormonism is NOT FOR ME. NOT FOR MY CHILDREN. When I walked out of the ward house for the last time, I looked back, and thought, "God is not here. This cult is not of God." Our lives are happy, and blessed, and filled with love! Every day, our decision to resign is reinforced. We never have looked back.