Posted by:
anonforthisone
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Date: February 09, 2016 11:47AM
Went 9 years without seeing TBM family. They can't be bothered visiting us so we thought we'd do the right thing and pay a visit for a few days-we booked a flight to SLC before heading out the west coast.
I'm amazed how manipulative some people can be-especially MIL and SIL. Comments were made about what a short visit we were making, yada yada. My SIL is particularly good at this emotional manipulation. At some point after emotional hellos and heart-rending statements (on their part) about missing us, DH casually asked his sister what she was doing the next day. Mind you, we were only going to be there a few days which they knew well in advance. Later in conversation about what our plans would be for the next day DH mentions that is sister had something to do the next day-he didn't know what it was. I assumed she had some work or church-related matter to take care of which, given the circumstances was annoying in and of itself. Well next day I found out what it was--she was having her hair/nails done. I was dumb-founded.
How could anyone go on and on about how much they love their sibling and miss them and then give up an opportunity to spend some time with them in order to make a salon appt?