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Ace of Hearts
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Date: February 03, 2016 07:30PM
So as some of you may know I am friends with a mormon. She was raised in it, as was her mother, and her father is a convert.
I care about her a lot, but she knows I do not believe in mormonism. I posted a conversation I had with her regarding polygamy, and the link is here:
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,1746381,1747244#msg-1747244After that conversation we let things kind of settle. I didn't want to seem pushy, and from what I have learned on this board it is best to let someone come the realization that Joseph Smith was a fraud(and by extension the LDS church) on their own.
I was left wondering if the things I said had an impact on her. I told her I had more questions that I would like to ask her, but again going back to the "let her find out on her own" method I did not go any further. I decided I would keep it that way until she asked me what those questions are, or if she ever asked me. I have heard of many TBMs that will actively block out any information that is not faith promoting. My thinking was if she doesn't ask me, she's not ready, and I need to back off.
She recently asked me....She wants to know what my questions are. In her words "she needs to know what they are"
What am I to make of this? I have a few ideas
1. She could have lined up apologist arguments to support JS and polygamy.
2. She wants to hear me denounce the church, so she can close the door on our friendship. Though I think she would have done this a long time ago.
3. She researched polygamy from a site like FAIR, or the like, and has more questions than answers now. She wants to know what I think of it.
I need help.
Imagine you were faced to face with a loved one, and they promised that they would hear you out. All your doubts, questions and misgivings about the church. They promised not to stop, interrupt, or block you out as you explained your feelings. You had one chance to make your case, and then they would seriously consider what you've told them.
What would you say?
*Disclaimer*
I'm not looking for rants, or coarsely worded combative language. I want to know what you would say to someone you genuinely care about and respect.
Thank you.