Posted by:
Sorrel
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Date: February 13, 2016 05:00AM
If it is unrealistic for him to wait 18 months for the woman he is *sure* is his eternal helpmeet, it doesn't exactly sound like true love.
If she were heading off to university and he said "marry me now or maybe I won't be here when you get back", no one would think twice about suggesting he go jump, because that kind of ultimatum is rubbish and manipulative.
Getting married means supporting each other. If she really wants a mission and he thinks manipulating her into giving that up is a legitimate response, that is a poor indication of how things will be in their future.