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stoppedtheinsanity
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Date: November 27, 2015 12:02PM
We ended up hosting thanksgiving at my house this year because my TBM sister who has a huge house was at her in-laws this year so the rest of my siblings, their families and my parents came over. Most of them don't care if we pray or not but my dad takes his role as the patriarch of our family very seriously. When we are at family gatherings he makes sure he is in charge and likes to call on unsuspecting individuals to say the prayer. Usually the ones he thinks needs some spiritual boost.
We have come a long way. My husband used to say a prayer when everyone was at our house just to appease my dad, because I refused. Or he would let my dad "lead" even at our house. But things have changed! Not too long ago we were at their house and my dad asked my husband to pray and he declined. It was awesome! So this Thanksgiving I was in charge. I welcomed everyone to our house and made a small little speech and then asked "would anyone like to offer a prayer". And of course the usual, awkward silence happened. (which is odd because doesn't everyone WANT to talk to heavenly father?) Just when I though we were off the hook and I was ready to say "then lets eat." My Dad saves the day... As we were eating I suggested we could each say what we were thankful for. When it was my dad's turn he said something stupid like I'm glad I can eat and not gain weight.( which is a joke) I guess since I didn't have the proper priesthood authority to be in charge he didn't have to try very hard. He and my mom did the dishes though so that was a bonus.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 11/27/2015 12:03PM by stoppedtheinsanity.