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Date: August 29, 2015 12:51AM
As a YBU student I had a close friend and roommate who I shared everything with. Even though she was TBM, she was liberal and open minded for a TBM. Or so I thought. During school she knew I no longer believed in TSCC and held my hand as I went through a deep depression over the repercussions of that and of an abusive ex I was forced to see regularly at school and church. She cheered me up and made me feel worthwhile and beautiful when antidepressants made me gain an insane amount of weight. But a few years ago, after I sent her a wedding invitation, she just stopped talking to me. She still talked to my family on facebook, but refused to acknowledge my existence.
Recently she told my mom why. She didn't tell me, she told my mom. Having a fat, depressed, apostate friend made her feel good about herself. Now that I am fit, professionally successful, and happily married, she can't stand it. She can't understand why God would bless a sinner like me with an awesome husband while she has always been obedient and is now *gasp* over 30 and still single.
Wow. I had no idea. How pathetic for her.