Posted by:
azsteve
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Date: August 08, 2015 11:29AM
When I was very young, we had a black nanny/housekeeper who lived with us for several years. Many times when my mother wasn't around, our nanny/housekeeper was more of a mother to me than my own mother was. She cooked dinner for us every night, and then ate alone in another room while our family ate together in the dining room. The Jim Crow laws were popular then. I was too young at that time to see any injustices. My family stayed in touch with her over the folliwing years. We all loved her. She was elderly and dieing in a hospital bed shortly before I went on my mission. I gave her a priesthood blessing a week before she died, wanting to heal her and knowing somehow deep inside that it wasn't going to work. I always asked myself what exactly she did in the pre-existance to deserve a curse in this life. Whatever it was, it didn't matter because we loved her anyway. Of course I realized years later that god did not curse her, only the earthly men in our church did.
It is under these conditions that this issue is important to me. When you see documentaries on tv about mormonism and the priesthood ban that was in place until 1978, they always say that blacks were not allowed to hold the priesthood. They leave it at that. They never go in to what that ban actually meant. For nearly every person who sees this on tv, it means something entirely different than the truth of what it really meant. Nearly everyone outside of the church is used to a church where only the minister who leads the congregatiin holds the priesthood. No one else in any other church holds the priesthood. So okay, no black person could be the one and only minister (equivalent of the mormon bishop). That is prejudicial still, but with minimal consequences. What they don't see is that every young boy from age twelve and up, is a priesthood holder in the mormon church. In the mormon church, you and your family are almost completely ostracised if the male membeds of the family don't hold the priesthood. Most activities and blessings exclude non-priesthood holders. They never talk about that on tv. Most of the world may never know just how prejudiced everyone in the church was until 1978, and just how thoroughly ostracised every black person really was. This included myself at the time, even though that's not what I wanted.