Posted by:
CristiB (AKA frtl mrtl)
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Date: May 24, 2015 03:47PM
First, let me explain that I was totally horrified by some dentists. Started when I was a kid, and one of my mother's uncles was a dentist, and gave my folks a wonderful price for dental work - services for whatever their insurance would pay, no more cost to them.
With that in mind, we always made two trips a year back to ID... for dental work.
Each time I had to have fillings done, his assistant would give me the shot of Novocaine, and I kept telling them I didn't feel any numbness... and felt all the work. I was always told I was being such a baby, so I'd sit there in the chair, ripping the arms to shreds with my fingernails.
Come to find out, years later, he was tried, convicted and jailed for fraud. Seems he billed medicaid for services not rendered - mainly use of anesthetics. I WAS RIGHT! I COULD feel every d@mned thing going on in my mouth!
Since then, I avoided dentists like the plague! AND If my kids ever complained, I made the dentists stop and give more novocaine or, IF they refused, I reported them and NEVER went back and told everyone I heard who was planning on going there what happened and that I would find another dentist! Be careful, there's liable and slander involved, so I found out. BE SURE TO TELL ONLY WHAT HAPPENED, not what you believed. I cannot be quiet about it even still!
When we got here to TX, the insurance we had insisted that people under 16 had to go to a pediatric dentist. There's one in town (the only one who was covered), and I was impressed because he helped so much around the local schools, most people had only good things to say about him... so I took my littles in. NEVER AGAIN! I Couldn't get the jerks to stop, while my kids screamed. (Two appointments in one week, youngest first, older second)
The older kidlet told me just exactly what he felt, and how he would NEVER go back. He didn't have to.
I paid out of pocket for the next 3 years for another pediatric dentist that came highly recommended by a mom who's kids were scared to death of dentists.
I got to stay in the office/room with the kids the whole time (unless the kiddo insisted they wanted me to wait, which they eventually did), the 'out of pocket' expense was actually LESS than the insurance portion for this dentist (he told me he was giving me a discount because of the fears of the kids, so he knew we had been treated wrongly), and they also have online appointment calendars/reminders. Finally, 2 years ago, our insurance picked him up. Our OOP expense is even LESS now! OH, and he also gives 'discounts' for referrals!
In the mean time, I had an aunt who's a hygienist. She about fainted when she heard my horror stories. She also said that you should approach the dentists you like and see if they can "trade" services.
I've also got a BIL who is a retired dentist. He agreed, anytime your dentist doesn't have enough pain medication, doesn't listen to you, doesn't do the right treatment, REPORT them!
So, all this to say, it may really be more cost effective, and definitely more psychologically effective to find a good dentist closer to home, or at least one who really cares.
IN THE MEAN TIME, how many people have heard about the dentist in FL? Abusing children for pulling teeth that didn't need pulling!
http://www.wtsp.com/story/news/2015/05/23/controversial-local-dentist-relinquishes-license/27871271/