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Posted by: CTRringturnsmyfingergreen ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 04:57PM

My cousin "liked" this video on Facebook so I had to take a look and see what it was all about. If you don't already know, "The Sons of Helaman" is a Mormon organization that exists primarily to treat "porn addiction". In short, to treat dirty,filthy, no good masturbators, mostly young men.

I haven't been around Mormon culture in 30 or so years, so when I see something like this it's a bit shocking because it's hard for me to imagine people really think like this. He compares this "addiction" to various wars and clearly he believes Satan is as real as the guy who lives next door. The scary thing is that this guy is a credentialed mental health professional (I think).

If you want a glimpse into the cult mindset, take a look at this video in whole or in part. How disgraceful to tell young men (who all masturbate) that their eternal salvation depends on whether or not they control this impulse and that what they are doing is vial and evil.

I blasted it of Facebook and said what a complete embarrassment this organization is.

Here's a glimpse into how out of touch he (and the mormon culture) are (at the 2:24 mark).

"I served a two year mission in Detroit where I learned how to become black and play basketball." (WHOOOO!! Hilarious!!!).

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vw_Lke835RQ&feature=youtu.be&t=20s

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 05:03PM

It's George Orwell's anti-sex league ( from the novel 1984). Those who are ignorant of literature are condemned to repeat it.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/22/2015 05:03PM by donbagley.

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Posted by: ificouldhietokolob ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 06:15PM

The guy giving the talk in the video looks like a big dick.
Pun intended.

I laughed when shortly into it, he talks about the "self mastery" the want the youth around them to practice.
Come on, have they no sense of humor or irony???

Tools.

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Posted by: lurking in ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 06:40PM

Even as a TBM youth, I thought that the "self mastery" term was a bad choice when talking about *not* masturbating. And I would hear other boys laugh when it was used.

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Posted by: ExMoBandB ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 06:35PM

I wonder if the "personal tools you can use at home" come in a plain brown wrapper.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 06:42PM

ex-boyfriends went to this place. He had a mission call and had to not go. She ran into him recently. He has left the lds church. He has gone back to school and just finished his master's degree. When she was dating him, he felt like a total failure because of his porn addiction. I was glad to hear he is doing so well after going through this kind of abuse.



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 05/22/2015 06:43PM by cl2.

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Posted by: tensolator ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 06:52PM

I am not going to ask any ladies to comment, but it would seem to me that this should apply to the Sisters of Helaman as well.

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Posted by: albertasaurus ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 06:56PM

Yeah the Morg needs to stop pretending spanking it is wrong. This isn't really any different then telling people breathing is a sin and they should stop. This kind of thinking causes a LOT of harm.

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Posted by: presleynfactsrock ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 08:08PM

Glad that you posted this as it is always a good idea to see what the mormon businesses are pushing. Thanks.

I have a family member who is mostly TBM working in the field of psychology so even though it was gut-wrenching to watch the site, I did just to be in the loop.

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Posted by: Quoth the Raven Nevermo ( )
Date: May 22, 2015 08:11PM


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Posted by: CTRringturnsmyfingergreen ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 09:35AM

On facebook I posted what an embarrassment the organization is. Those comments are gone, of course.

Mormons don't like to be told they are ridiculous, even when they advertise their insanity in a public forum.

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Posted by: Anziano Young ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 01:11PM

Meanwhile, in real life, there's this:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3087953/An-orgasm-day-lower-man-s-risk-prostate-cancer-20-study-reveals.html

Did Elohim forget that he created this little health benefit, or does he just hate Mormons?

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Posted by: CTRringturnsmyfingergreen ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 03:04PM

Elohim is an unpredictable sumbitch. His intentions will be revealed later.

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Posted by: anonuk ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 04:49PM

hubby told me about that and asked for my help to prolong his life - I told him I'd miss him! (joke hubby told my parents other day)

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Posted by: anonfornow ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 03:20PM

If it's not a sin, they can't sell a cure.

This "sin" is low-hanging fruit.

Pay up, you touch yourself, we know it, you know we know it, we know you know we know it. We do it, too.

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Posted by: seekyr ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 03:55PM

Yeah, I guess they literally are "out of touch"

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Posted by: Doubting Thomas ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 06:34PM

That guy shouldn't be in the training business. Monotone and boring are not two of the keys to motivating people.

30 seconds was all I could take.

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Posted by: bradley ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 06:41PM

They should make a Sons of Helium video. They would be more fun to watch if they sucked on a balloon first.

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 08:06PM


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Posted by: Hervey Willets ( )
Date: May 25, 2015 09:36PM


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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 06:44PM

TSCC is selling natural bodily functions as "addictions".

Do these people have an oxygen addiction ?

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: May 24, 2015 01:08PM

Their prostates are full of hate but their bowels are full of mercy. Eat all you want and overwork your system with blood sugar and less nutrient calories but by all that is holy don't even work your little factory!

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Posted by: almaqq ( )
Date: May 23, 2015 10:03PM

I wonder how much they are charging for this nonsense

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Posted by: breedumyung ( )
Date: May 24, 2015 09:29AM

"Here's a glimpse into how out of touch he (and the mormon culture) are"

Pun intended...

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