Your advice you give does not go in vain. About a year or maybe 2 years ago I came on here wondering what to do with my girlfriend that started hitting me when we got in a fight. Last weekend I broke up with this girl and everything of hers is out if my place now. I certainly took your words into consideration when I made this decision even though it took me a long time because I loved her. Thanks for the help even though I was slow to respond.

Good to hear. Good luck on your journey.

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Good for you! Be proud of yourself for ending a bad situation. Take some time and be on your own awhile. Decompress... figure out what you want from life.

When you do date, be cautious about finding a similar individual with anger issues. Therapy might be useful to know why you tolerated the abuse, and how to set proper boundaries.

Congratulations for being able to breathe and relax once more without walking on eggshells! Be very particular who you allow into your life from now on... Enjoy your freedom and future! =)

Wow it's like you read my mind. I kept telling her I was tired of waking on eggshells. Thank you so much!

Usually, we hear about guys how hit, and forget that gals can do the same thing. Hope you are happier now and know you do not have to be abused. That is not love.

Thanks for the return and report.

Congratulations for having courage to leave this horrible situation.

I remember your post. Great to hear your news.

Oh you do! Yes I'm the one where we went to a concert and she pushed me away when I started grinding with her then when I got upset she started yelling for the police. Then when we got home we continued fighting. Then she got more upset and started hitting. She's tiny so she couldn't do anything but I told her if she did it again we are through.

Well she kept getting mad at me for no reason or just really tiny reasons and I kept telling her I am tired of walking on egg shells. Then 2 weeks ago I wanted to break up with her because she got really upset because I disagreed with her on an hypothetical situation. That night she wanted to sleep in the other room.

The last fight we had was she yelled at me all day long because I facetimed my sister in the bedroom. I kept the phone on my face so my sister couldn't see her. Plus she was already awake and playing with her phone.

After getting yelled at all day long for that she wanted me to apologize like a lap dog. That's when I decided it was time to end this.

I'm glad that you've parted ways with her. Best of luck moving forward!