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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 24, 2015 05:14PM

But you will probably lose your callings and your job if you work for the church...


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeffrey_Nielsen


From the article referenced here.

http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,1541897

"An LDS apostle reaffirmed recently that Mormons who support gay marriage are not in danger of losing their temple privileges or church memberships — even though the Utah-based faith opposes the practice."
http://www.sltrib.com/lifestyle/faith/2301174-155/mormons-free-to-back-gay-marriage

So in other words, go get money to pay us from people who will use your labor, we just don't want it.

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Posted by: ohdeargoodness ( )
Date: March 24, 2015 08:23PM

Does anybody else think this is a complete 180 from even six or nine months ago?

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 12:45PM

Yeah, like so obvious as to make me wonder why it hasn't made more members mad. The Jeffrey Nielson thing was hotter than hot back in the day. This is so bad.

Now, LDS Inc. has codified the treatment of gay peoples as second class and whined to be able to religiously discriminate against them.

Their status in LDS Inc. is the following - can be members, may have callings if they are celibate but can't marry or have much in the way of leadership opportunities. They can support gay marriage but members doing this risk losing employment with LDS Inc. and any leadership opportunities or callings.

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Posted by: ohdeargoodness ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 12:56PM

Makes me so angry...

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Posted by: Templar ( )
Date: March 28, 2015 08:02PM

I guess Monson will forever be known as the "spinning" prophet!

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Posted by: Ex-Sister Sinful Shoulders ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 01:08PM

The media should be informed that every gay Mormon male has a coded file that indicates they are not allowed any callings where children are present: primary/music, teens, Scouts, Sunday school... Automatically equating gays with pedophiles was one of the final straws for Benji S. leaving the church. (Mormon Stories Podcast) I don't know the policy for LBTQ Mormons.

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Posted by: flo, the nevermo ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 01:29PM

Excuse my ignorance, but do you mean a literal code? Has the code been exposed?

(Oh, man, I almost typed "revealed" instead of exposed. Then I was gonna use "outed." !)

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Posted by: Ex-Sister Sinful Shoulders ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 04:45PM

Mormon Stories: Benji Schwimmer video interview (winner of: So You Think You Can Dance? podcasts 502, 503, 504?)

According to Benji Schwimmer. His stake president let him know there is new church policy (as of Feb/March 2011). Any member who admits any homosexual activity has an asterisk placed on their church file that they cannot have a teaching calling/interact with kids under age 18. The asterisk remains on the file until the member dies, no matter what-regardless of repentance, hetero marriage, no matter what, permanent.

He described what his stake president told him/John agreed/knew about church policy for gays as of 2011. They discuss this on the video interview/ Podcast (3 parts, part 3 marker 1 hr 3 min Mark).

The homophobic church is run by law firms.

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Posted by: azsteve ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 06:31PM

This is ironic considering that hetrosexuals who have convictions for child molesting can still get callings and be around children.

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Posted by: Ex-Sister Sinful Shoulders ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 07:34PM

Exactly. How many of the "worthy" priesthood holders covered for each other's felonies in the past.

Isn't it defamation of character to be an assumed pedophile simply for being gay? That must be covered under the "religious freedom" legislation...

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Posted by: anonfornow ( )
Date: March 28, 2015 08:49PM

azsteve Wrote:
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> This is ironic considering that hetrosexuals who
> have convictions for child molesting can still get
> callings and be around children.

An acquaintance wanted to divorce her hubby after he was caught trying to meet a 12 year old girl he seduced online. Too bad for him, it was a Federal sting.

LDS told her if she did, she would be ousted. She was devastated by the dual betrayal.

She divorced, he's a few years through a fifteen year plea-bargained sentence.

I don't know her membership status now.

Evil.

Reminds me of the Catholic policy for priests - We'll protect you so long as you've "only" screwed a child, but don't you dare have an adult sexual relationship.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 29, 2015 05:15PM

anonfornow Wrote:

> Reminds me of the Catholic policy for priests -
> We'll protect you so long as you've "only" screwed
> a child, but don't you dare have an adult sexual
> relationship.

Children don't matter in an adult world. Jesus suffered - literally - the little children to be with him.

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Posted by: flo, the nevermo ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 06:54PM

Freaking unbelievable. These guys just make one ridiculously bad call after another. It's a train wreck.

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Posted by: Templar ( )
Date: March 28, 2015 08:14PM

While at the same time saying with a straight face that it is "god's only true church on the face of the earth".

Some god. I want no part of the bastard!

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Posted by: bradley ( )
Date: March 29, 2015 05:51PM

Yes, but being stupid is one of the requirements for the job.

You have to wonder about the viability of an organization that excludes anyone with the least bit of critical thinking skills from its upper management.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 29, 2015 07:41PM

bradley Wrote:
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> You have to wonder about the viability of an
> organization that excludes anyone with the least
> bit of critical thinking skills from its upper
> management.

There is another explanation - they are critical thinkers who lie.

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Posted by: Ex-Sister Sinful Shoulders ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 07:56PM

Correction: Benji Schwimmer's interviews on Mormon Stories are #350, 351, 352

(352 is where he talks about the new LDS INC policy requiring permanent asterisk on gay Mormon files...)

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Posted by: levantlurker ( )
Date: March 28, 2015 07:02PM

This probably means that all converts who answered affirmatively to 'Have you ever been in a homosexual relationship?' during the baptism interview immediately get an asterisk when their member record is created.

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Posted by: Ex-Sister Sinful Shoulders ( )
Date: March 28, 2015 11:47PM

Most have no idea what they are getting in to. One woman in a podcast interview had no idea about garments, or parents being banned from weddings...

A Bi-racial young woman said her black father had never been informed blacks had previously been banned from the priesthood. (She belonged to Ordain Women).

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 03:27PM

Say what is right? FIRED!

Do what is right? GONE!

Think for yourself? CHASTISED!

Want commUNITY, eQUALITY, hONEsty? GO SOMEWHERE ELSE!

The only thing to lose is the Mormon Church. Well, technically, they are lost already. You get the point.

(Point the finger at them - they can't point straight at you - show them how wrong they are.)

Bigots - always saying one thing and doing another.

blasphemy

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 25, 2015 05:38PM

moremany Wrote:
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> Bigots - always saying one thing and doing
> another.

“hospitalization and medical care, fair housing and employment rights, or probate rights, so long as these do not infringe on the integrity of the traditional family or the constitutional rights of churches.”7
https://www.lds.org/topics/same-gender-attraction?lang=eng

7 http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/church-responds-to-same-sex-marriage-votes

So, if a gay couple starts the process a rental agreement and then a traditional family starts the process a member is a good member if they choose to ditch the earlier application to preserve the integrity of the traditional family or the constitutional rights of the church?

What about medical care, members should seek to preserve the lives of heterosexuals before homosexuals because these people maintain the integrity of the traditional family or the constitutional rights of the church more?

They made this a moral argument in the political realm and attempted to use political means to enforce their morals and the constitutional rights of an organization over that of individuals.

Goodness is not bound by righteousness thank God.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/25/2015 05:39PM by Elder Berry.

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Posted by: fluhist ( )
Date: March 28, 2015 07:16PM

In reading the synopsis of his book (in the attachment above) he has nailed the whole leadership/sheeple thingey and it has proved true with himself. He has proven his own thesis with this own experience.

How sad, he had a lot to teach his students, all of which was thought provoking and open for debate. It would have done all his students a lot of good. And he is silenced because he came out in support of one group of his students - the gay ones.

It is awful, just awful!!

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 30, 2015 12:10PM

And there will be no apologies I guarantee it.

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