Is like he who smelt it dealt it.

Why is it that whenever you try to enlighten someone with the facts, in the most loving way possible and because you love them and want to lighten their load, they take it as a personal attack?

As for the subject line, it's so Mormon. A very common phrase in Mormonism, so quintessentially Mormon in its freakish judgmentalism. Defense of the ego does not equal wickedness but Mormons say it does to defend their own egos.