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Cold-Dodger
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Date: March 20, 2015 03:12PM
I've had my dealings with several different kinds of bishops, and I've been the son of one. Often I would over hear my father talking with my mother about confidential things. I was always the more keen-eared of his kids. When he realized that I heard everything, he would come over to me as I was reading a book, doing homework, or playing video games and tell me that nothing I heard leaves the house, ever.
So it leaves me wondering about a lot. As I sit here, there's a former bishop of mine sitting across the room chatting with another gentleman in a suit. I went over a said hello, just to be polite, and then retreated into my private corner to eat my lunch. I felt stupid, because they ceased their conversation as I pulled up and all I said was greetings.
So in my anxiety, I wondered what my old bishop might say about me to his friend. Even if he thought he was keeping the most esstential parts of our closed-door relationship confidential, how much could be let slip and still think he'd done no wrong? How seriously do bishops take confidentiality long after they are released? They know dirt on everyone.
That also gets me thinking about the larger TBM gossip mill. Every person who leans over to the next to whisper something seems to think that that person won't pass it on, but they do.
Ward cultures vary so wildly from place to place. And the same one can vary bishop to bishop, or via boundary changes. I'm curious to know what other people's experiences and/or observations are on this.