Posted by:
torturednevermo
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Date: March 18, 2015 12:52PM
I wrote a bit about this when I first came to the site, but I didn’t get very far with it, I was told to get a life and that the word didn’t mean that anymore, it was just a vanilla swear word. The word was bastard. The last acceptable ‘slur’ swear on prime time TV (which means it gets used a lot … it’s the go to slur word nowadays.) Being that I’m an illegitimate child, and it was the sole reason I was badly abused as a child, so sure … I notice it when it gets used.
I’ve been around plenty of rednecks who use the N word removed from any addressing of a black person … you know, just as a vanilla swear (a slur). They will use the homophobic F word in the same way too … maybe for someone who just didn’t serve them a beer fast enough; a vanilla swear (a slur). They might call a dude a woman too, as if there is something inherently bad about being a female. It’s derogatory; slurring as a swear implies defect towards the slurred identity. It implies discrimination, even if it’s used out of the original context and just as a vanilla swear or slur, that’s why a slur is a slur in the first place … a derogatory, discriminatory connotation.
But, I have to just ignore everyone calling people bastards. It’s cultural, and you can’t take toys away from children without a lot of foot stomping and complaining. But, taking the definition (see below) … you can see how even if people aren’t using meaning #1, based on the ancient discrimination associated with the term, it isn’t really all that acceptable to use meaning #2 either. Realize that some people are using N or F to simply describe a scoundrel, villain, rogue, rascal, weasel, snake, snake in the grass, miscreant, good-for-nothing, reprobate, too … and that still doesn’t make it ok. A slur is a slur is a slur ... and there is a history behind why it evolved into a slur.
But don’t feel self conscious, I don’t really care ALL that much. People aren’t going to stop slurring bastards anytime soon, if ever. We’re an invisible minority, so we just hide our shame, or maybe pay for some expensive therapy. It’s all good … but it does make for an interesting study of sociology. You fucking slurring bastards! :)
bas•tard
ˈbastərd/
noun: bastard; plural noun: bastards
1. Archaic derogatory
a person born of parents not married to each other.
synonyms: illegitimate child, child born out of wedlock; More
dated love child
"he had fathered a bastard"
2. informal
an unpleasant or despicable person.
synonyms: scoundrel, villain, rogue, rascal, weasel, snake, snake in the grass, miscreant, good-for-nothing, reprobate;
"he lied to me, the bastard!"