Posted by:
Dorothy
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Date: February 27, 2015 12:05PM
I'm 51. When I was 23, my mom pressured me to start having kids. She was afraid we--well really my husband--would get too attached to having money. The first was a pretty big challenge--beyond normal stuff, whatever that is. The second snuck in with an oooops.
I don't recall any huge family, social, or church pressure to have lots of kids. I remember it from growing up. I'm pretty sure that's why my youngest brother is here. Even though the one before about killed my mom and she was told to stop.
I was out with my TBM friend who made it clear that she believes you have all the kids you can with no excuses. She pressures her kids to do the same--even though there's some serious genetic issues.
Were you pressured to have a large family?