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CA girl
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Date: February 26, 2015 10:48AM
My mom just loves to watch those videos of missionaries receiving their mission calls. She re-posts them to Facebook all the time with an explanation that Mormon boys and girls give up 1 1/2 - 2 years of their time at their own expense to teach people about Jesus. Then she'll add something about "I remember how excited CA girl was when she got her mission call" or "I was so happy to see her again when she got off the airplane since missionaries don't get to call home or visit during their missions" or some such nonsense. She thinks everyone is SO impressed the kids pay their own way and that they sacrifice even phone calls to family - not realizing most people will wonder why the church doesn't pay or think the church is cruel to cut kids off from their loved ones for two years. But it really bugs me that she mentions me and goes on and on about how great my mission was for our whole family. I want to comment "Yeah but that's before I figured out the church was a huge fraud and got myself out of it almost 6 years ago. Nowadays I wouldn't recommend a mission for anyone."
The problem is 1) my mom is old and probably, literally, forgets I ask her not to do this. She's gotten much more forgetful over the last year. 2) Mom is old and lives far away and I don't want to upset her, even though she's upsetting me. 3) A lot of my childhood Mormon friends are also FB friends with her and I don't want to start anything with them because they have been amazingly supportive of my new beliefs, unlike my adult Mormon friends. 4) I know one of the reasons she's doing it to try to remind me of how I felt about the church during my mission - remind me of my testimony.
So basically, I've just come here to vent about a problem I see no solution for, hoping someone could give me some insight or just to get it off my chest. Thanks for listening - especially when some of you had to listen to me vent about this a couple of years ago when she first started.